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AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
The more successful a man becomes, the harder it becomes for him to remain loyal to just one woman.
The primal desire within him to conquer the world, build something great, and mate with beautiful women never truly goes away.
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
Unrelated but Imagine a man who has spent his entire life training/owning only Rottweilers, Belgian Malinois and Pitbulls. Then suddenly he moves to a country where all the dogs are golden retrievers and Beagles. Imagine how good he’ll be with those dogs. Again unrelated
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
A lot of people don’t understand how relationships work.
They did not set out to fuck on the job.
This is what eventually happens but unfortunately it’s what marriages are missing. You see, at work, you do stuff together - you talk, to build projects, fail, tray again, travel together, have lunch at office cafeteria. This mimics a relationship already. Slowly, you begin to see the person beyond your colleague. You begin to see their soft and hard sides; their vulnerability. You begin to know them deeply, in fact, far more than your spouse at home (8-12 hours at work is no joke).
Eventually, guards drop. Likeness begins and you fuck!
A lot of marriages are struggling because couples don’t do stuff together as much as they do with their colleagues at work. Great bonds are formed when you do something with someone. See soldiers, Boy Scouts members etc. That’s how it works.
Anyone who thinks people won’t fuck themselves at work in 2026 is being delusional. You don’t have to like it. Policies can minimise it, but it can never eradicate it.
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
Imagine growing up just to realize ur stupid mama made contents of u breast feeding when u were a baby
Now u can’t win any argument in school 😭
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
I’m just blocking these African accounts. I think it’s safe to say Nigerian women are full blown retarded prostitutes incapable of a normal healthy relationship.
They are also toxic, they cheat, they are definitely not loyal. Don’t have a baby it’s probably not yours. As a mother I wouldn’t want my son dealing with any of them. I would seriously object. Massive red flags
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
Its really this simple.
This is why i am of the opinion that you do not owe Nigerian women monogamy, especially the non virgins.
Since they are only with you because you can "afford" them, you should have more women you can afford.
Staying with me because of my money and still expecting monogamy from me has got to be peak delusion which is very typical of women.
Every woman likes a man with money so why should I be fvcking only one?.
As a casual partner, they get to be wild with you without judgement. They are non-entitled and well behaved because you owe them nothing. If you give her money, she values it more than whatever her man would give her because she feels entitled to her man's own, while giving him nothing.
If you can't find a decently well raised person, the best thing you can do as a 9ja man is casual sex and pack as many as you "can afford."
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
Looking back, secondary school was full of people with incredible potential. Some were brilliant academically, some could make an entire classroom laugh, others were naturally witty, outspoken, fearless or exceptionally creative. There was so much raw talent around us.
A man will meet a woman - he is taller than her, older than her, richer than her (usually far richer), he takes her outta debt, upgrades her entire life, she's is respected more in society because of her association with him, he gets the best lifestyle.... But it is the man who is lucky to have her.
The lot of you should be in a mad-house.
Pushed your dad?
Pushed your brothers?
Hell! Pushed yourself?
Are you forbidden from financial prosperity? 🤷🏾♂️
AKÍNTỌ̀MÍDÉ retweeted
The nonsense we do with our Nigerian men, we can't even try it with white men.
An African man was trained to cater for his family; oyibos weren't trained like that.
You will share that bill, sis. They are not even ashamed to ask for your share because they see it as a normal thing adults do.
I am sure the lady is talking from experience 😂😂😂😂
