unironically a couple of good relationships fundamentally altered this in me to which I’m immensely grateful
the concepts of a collaborative partner, getting girlfriend-brain, yielding yin flow weren’t even like unicorn tales for me since in the first place they were rather unfathomable. you are conditioned in ways that at times only others hold the ability to illuminate for you and it‘s a beautiful demonstration of love’s power, a generative force that when surrendering into you find reality contains forms of goodness your mind had never learned to anticipate. expanding the range of what you can conceive of as a life
in a sweet way I think when these men realize their partner doesn't need them to perform invulnerability or this isn’t a diminution of whatever masculinity concept it grants access for them as well to experience a very heartfelt augmentation of their own humanity
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I think everyone’s lost the plot with dating tbh
You’re looking for home. That’s the only point of any of it. A flickering hearth, a bountiful table, a passion that will wax and wane as unalarmingly as the moon. Deciding to love a person ideally involves the same simple blend of logic + intuition that goes into choosing a place to live: you have a short list of what you absolutely need, some things that are nice to have, but mostly it comes down to if it feels immediately instinctively NICE.
When you’re paying attention to how you feel that recognition comes pretty quickly imo. People overcomplicate it a lot, mostly by trying to look to others to figure out what they should care about.
wake up babe, every version of PHP for the past 17 years has two critical bugs and now 74.5% of the internet is broken lol. there's a patch coming out tomorrow but until then most of the internet has open backdoors that allow unauthorized remote code execution
🥹🥰📢feels unreal but: I’m gonna step for the first time on american soil!!!!!📢🥰🥹
I’ll be in SF nov 12th-23rd!!!
and I need help to find a place to crash at!!
If anyone so kindly has the space to host me/knows someone, I’ll appreciate it greatly and likely grace u with delicious meals. please help a girl who tpot has been trying to get to the land of the free for 4 years now (what the actual hell. unreal.)
you treat the elephant in the room either as a threatening mass to tranquillize into submission with a shit ton etorphine to kill the soul of for denial and cope
or like a divine manifestation as ganesha
letting an elephant be ganesha helps to discover the wisdom in the frightful
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saddleback caterpillars look like they're wearing a tiny safety vest... amazing. brilliant..
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LANGUAGE is a FEELING in the body. literally when you talk you can feel the vibrations in your vocal cords and whatnot. furthermore, language indexes different parts of our mind-body schemas, allowing us to traverse our our phenomenology using different tokens. the dialect between language (the head) and the gut (feeling your feelings) is important and shouldn't be disregarded. feeling the "raw data" of feelings comes at a cost if you never give it a resonant handle. the head gives the gut a way to be heard, and the gut gives the head a way to feel without biasing towards combinatorial explosion of INDEXXING phenomenology.





































