As a woman, learn to play with your man's thing randomly, whenever you're together. Don't be a boring partner who's always waiting for the man to initiate things. You can be having a conversation and you'll suddenly touch his thing gently through the boxers via any of the three openings. Then gradually slip your hand into those boxers, softly grab the staff, then let the hand move down to the soccer balls as you slightly stroke those delicate areas with the soft tip of your fingers. And watch him let out a heavenly sound that'll make even the tunnel between your own thighs water too. Then plant your lips on his for a while, then plant those lips on his neck from various angles; plant them on his ears too, and on his nipples, his navel, and back to his neck. And, if you don't mind, take your lips down to the middle of his thighs, and take that standing rod into the cold embrace of your mouth. Don't forget the soccer balls, either; they'll also appreciate touches from the wet red towel in your mouth. By the time he finally gets up to do the same for you... Omo... Things will get very intense. And I promise you, if you always do this, the love and feelings that bind you both will never die; you'll always be in his mind.