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Findom is in many ways inseparable from your self esteem
It’s financial & emotional sacrifice. Part of your life. Efforts put down the drain. The dark thoughts you fall into can feel like a true reflection of who you are
Can be hard to reconcile without trust & reassurance.
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one of the worst feelings is realizing somebody values what you bring to their life way more than they value YOU
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nobody talks about how being a genuinely good person can actually make your life HARDER
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you ever felt bad for saying no to somebody who wouldn’t even think twice about telling you no?
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they don’t tell you how much you learn about people when you simply stop explaining yourself
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the moment you stop doing favors, certain relationships start feeling like they never existed ..
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The challenge on here is that you get Doms who are either too young or too callous/ignorant to realize it’s a relationship.
Even for faggots who revel in the degeneracy and crave humiliation, there’s only so low the human psyche can go before there’s real damage.
A good Dom needs to see that and adjust. I’ve straight up told fags to stop sending cause they were in a spiral I knew it would emotionally wreck them.
And for the Doms who come back saying “who cares, they’re faggots.”
1. They’re humans.
2. You’re a fucking idiot—a loyal, healthy faggot is going to serve for far better and longer than someone you left to bleed out.