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Why are some men UNFORGETTABLE in bed while others are completely forgettable?
Most men think it comes down to physical technique, penis size, or stamina.
They’re missing a huge piece of the equation.
It’s SEXUAL PSYCHOLOGY. 🧵
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Women, especially Americanized ones who gave up femininity, are far more cruel than most men would ever be. She didn’t need to date him but she didn’t need to be mean.
Lesson: Assume a woman is a piece of shit, regardless of what she looks like, until she proves otherwise.
> Fat chud goes to Bruno mars concert wearing a bandana (lol)
> Has a moment with a girl there thinks he found the love of his life (lol)
> Posts a tiktok asking for help since he forgot to take her insta
> Women in comments go about KKK with hate comments
> The girl posts saying she assumed he was a homosexual mocking him (lol)
Now if I say that the women would've considered this a peak romantic moment if he was a chad millionaire they will call me a incel but it is what it is.
So I just had this lady argue with me on this platform.
I shared a screenshot of an article about a woman grooming and sexually exploiting a minor, to make a point about female predators.
She responds by accusing me of posting an AI-altered photograph in which the woman’s breasts supposedly look bigger than they actually are.
Even though neither of us know what the woman’s breasts look like because neither of us have met her. I didn’t take the picture. I didn’t edit the picture. I didn’t select the picture for an article. I just shared the article screenshot.
And let’s say the editors DID alter the photograph? How the fuck am I supposed to know and why would I care when it has nothing to do with my post?
So this woman constructs an entirely separate outrage in her head, assigns the responsibility for her outrage to me, invents my motivations, and then demands that I defend my myself against her imagination.
Now I am not saying you should ever jump out of a window and end it over a woman. But I am saying that I get it. In fact if I learned that the woman I talked about above was this guys wife, I’d completely understand.
This is hilarious. The guy is maybe 1/2 point SMV lower then her, which is a pretty close enough looks match. Yet Many women will say he is unattractive compared to her.
Here is why:
1. Women tend to have inflated views of their SMV thanks to social media and modern female hubris
2. He lacks what I call dominance. Women aren’t just evaluating on conventional looks like facial symmetry or teeth or skin, etc. they are also evaluating on the appearance of dominance.
This is why women go for guys who are “ugly hot” as it’s sometimes called.
To add some context for those commenting that banging a “hot chick” like this would be every 14 year olds dream.
You are right. Controversial truth is that many teens who have raging hormones and sexual interests are going to consent and enjoy sex with the interested adult. Especially if she (or he for the girls) is attractive That’s guy or girl. We aren’t talking about an assault by force in these situations.
But that is exactly how “grooming” works. The adult in the situation is using things like sex, validation, gifts, and so on that are pleasurable and inviting to the victim to get the victim into a relationship where they have power over them. And some adult predators are aggressively trying to make this happen, while most are more opportunistic and susceptible of becoming a predator if the situation presents itself.
The problem isn’t so much the short term pleasure. The problem is in the consequences afterwards. I have run into this many times over the years where I am talking to an adult (man or woman) who had a sexual relationship with an older adult as a pre-teen or teen. In almost every case the teen “wanted it” and often times in the case of the girls had a crush on the older person and had somewhat tried to seduce the adult into it.
The consequences of these relationships are almost always bad, and sometimes catastrophically bad for the teen. We know it’s that way for the girls, but no one ever talks about how it can be horrific for the guys too.
The guys often have mental and emotional difficulties and struggle in healthy relationships as adults because of how the grooming affected their development and sexual and emotional responses. And a significant number of these boy teens end up taking their own lives, or turning to addiction.
So saying “man I wish I had a hot lady try to bang me when I was a kid” is missing the other side. I remember when I was a teen and I would have loved to have been in a high intensity sexual relationship with any attractive woman, especially some fully developed hot 20 something chick. It actually almost happened to me. But I am glad it didn’t. And you should be glad too.
And you should probably stop considering kids who went through this as “lucky,” because that framing is how people end up sounding like they need their devices checked.
She groomed and raped a 14 year old kid she met as his therapist in a juvenile detention center, and continued to bang him until he was 17.
We talk about the 50-100 teachers who make the news each year. But there are 1000’s of women in other professions or who just happen to live in the neighborhood raping teens too. And no one will ever know about them.
She groomed and raped a 14 year old kid she met as his therapist in a juvenile detention center, and continued to bang him until he was 17.
We talk about the 50-100 teachers who make the news each year. But there are 1000’s of women in other professions or who just happen to live in the neighborhood raping teens too. And no one will ever know about them.
To add some context for those commenting that banging a “hot chick” like this would be every 14 year olds dream.
You are right. Controversial truth is that many teens who have raging hormones and sexual interests are going to consent and enjoy sex with the interested adult. Especially if she (or he for the girls) is attractive That’s guy or girl. We aren’t talking about an assault by force in these situations.
But that is exactly how “grooming” works. The adult in the situation is using things like sex, validation, gifts, and so on that are pleasurable and inviting to the victim to get the victim into a relationship where they have power over them. And some adult predators are aggressively trying to make this happen, while most are more opportunistic and susceptible of becoming a predator if the situation presents itself.
The problem isn’t so much the short term pleasure. The problem is in the consequences afterwards. I have run into this many times over the years where I am talking to an adult (man or woman) who had a sexual relationship with an older adult as a pre-teen or teen. In almost every case the teen “wanted it” and often times in the case of the girls had a crush on the older person and had somewhat tried to seduce the adult into it.
The consequences of these relationships are almost always bad, and sometimes catastrophically bad for the teen. We know it’s that way for the girls, but no one ever talks about how it can be horrific for the guys too.
The guys often have mental and emotional difficulties and struggle in healthy relationships as adults because of how the grooming affected their development and sexual and emotional responses. And a significant number of these boy teens end up taking their own lives, or turning to addiction.
So saying “man I wish I had a hot lady try to bang me when I was a kid” is missing the other side. I remember when I was a teen and I would have loved to have been in a high intensity sexual relationship with any attractive woman, especially some fully developed hot 20 something chick. It actually almost happened to me. But I am glad it didn’t. And you should be glad too.
And you should probably stop considering kids who went through this as “lucky,” because that framing is how people end up sounding like they need their devices checked.
Posts like this are actually part of the problem.
The number one thing a woman can do if she wants to be useful at all (and never mind the team shit) is know when to shut the fuck up, know when to stay out of his way, and have gratitude.
Only when she’s figured out how to do this can she even begin to be an asset rather than a hinderance.
Posts like this only demonstrate a woman being so concerned with being recognized as a man’s “equal” that she is doing none of the things above.
Damn. 27k for getting the guys semen in her mouth from a water bottle.
And just think, most gals only be charging 100 to get it right from the source.
In 2010, a California woman took a sip from her office water bottle and suspected it contained semen. Then it happened again.
This time, she kept the bottle.
She asked her fiancé to provide a comparison sample, then had the workplace bottle tested.
A private lab confirmed her suspicion.
DNA testing identified her coworker, Michael Kevin Lallana.
He admitted contaminating her water twice.
He found her attractive, he told detectives, and knew “her lips had touched” the bottle.
In 2011, he was convicted of two misdemeanor battery counts with sexual-gratification enhancements.
He received 180 days in jail, three years’ probation and an order to register as a sex offender.
He was also ordered to pay over $27,000 in restitution.
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Hoe phase pt 2: the final boss
In 2016, months after learning her breast cancer was terminal, 42-year-old Molly Kochan left her husband and started having sex with strangers she met online.
Over the next few years, she slept with nearly 200 different men.
Her hormone treatment had unexpectedly sent her sex drive through the roof, and with her time running out, Molly stopped holding back.
After years of surgeries, scars and trauma, sex made her feel alive again and gave her back control of her body.
She told her best friend, Nikki Boyer, everything. Eventually, the two set up a pair of microphones and started recording their conversations about every date.
Even when cancer put her in a hospital bed, she didn’t stop. Between treatments, she sexted strangers and kept writing her memoir.
Before she died in March 2019, at 45, Molly asked Nikki for two promises: publish her book and release their recordings.
Nikki kept both.
The escorts have weighed in. Men want to feel desired during sex.
Look, I'm a former escort AND slut
Men straight up cannot get hard if they think you're not into it
Men hesitate mid-sex if they suspect you so much as winced
I promise my sample size is higher than yours, and no, most men are not into sex a woman doesn't want
I am not here for women who pretend most men are passive-aggressive predators, cuz they're not
Most men spend their lives guessing what women want sexually.
Some stumble into success. Most never systematically develop their skills.
You don’t have to be one of them.
STOP GUESSING. START UNDERSTANDING. BECOME UNFORGETTABLE.
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