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Joined June 2022
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Plus all the parasocial relationships we’ve made too. Influencers, the celebrities you love and adore so much, even oomfs will die eventually and it will hurt so bad each time.
cant make this shit up tonight I opened X, saw a plane hit the ground at 200000 mph, a detroit lions players get horribly injured, an old video of the tsunami destroying japan, a cop get shot, and a post about cancer in <<<< 5 minutes (not an exaggeration). immediately got sad. will be ruminating for a while. love this app. love what social media offers the world. but holy shit if you dont think sitting on these apps all day can negatively impact your mood then youve really gotta take a look in the mirror.
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You cannot be a pretty, bubbly girl with passions, strong opinions and a great sense of humor they will literally kill you.
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The rebrand from survival mode to powerful, private, prosperous, purposeful & at peace.
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If i sleep at your house i love you so much. I love to go home.
I really can’t sleep at peoples houses 😭😭😭
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Birthday, Halloween, orange trees, crunchy leaves everywhere, boots + trench coat fits, steam inhalation, blankets, hoodies, weather for two, herbal tea, I could go on. No one loves fall more than me. 🙂‍↔️
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Got invited to hyrox from the run club sesh today, una really mean this fitness thing o. I just want to be healthy and toned pls 😭
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Fuck African world leaders fr. Japa culture steals dignity as well. You have to trade your dignity and identity for stable income, basic necessities, human rights, education and healthcare. Just so you buy bags for foreign babes, cars and spoil your kids while your people have to become second class human beings in another man’s land. you steal family gatherings, relationships, memories and a chance at a legacy for them. fuck western imperialism as well.
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So it’s not just internet agenda? Crazy.
Replying to @blacksavichi
I am German, and the main reason men are killing themselves is because of loneliness, majority of women are fucking minority of men, life as a man is extremely competitive because women are taking more corporate jobs.
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Both of them o, plus ROI 🫩
First it was CGPA, now it’s KPI.
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“You’re a woman with a brain, and reasonable ability. Stop whining and find something to do!”
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Two stages of research: 1) I think I’m onto something 2) oh no
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I think many people sleep on languages as a skill. Free/cheap resources on the internet, and it can open more opportunities for you, with or without the degree you have.
I wish I had just learned a skill instead of spending four years chasing a degree I already know I won’t even use. Nigeria’s education system is fucked up, mehn! 😭 My degree can’t even afford the kind of lifestyle I want. Deep down, I know I’ve literally wasted 4 years of my life.🥲
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Irritated so easily that I have a resting “ni kini?” face?
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AJ. retweeted
whyyyy am i so lucky!? why am i so wealthy?!!! why am i so intelligent!!? why is everything soooo easy for me!??! life is always so fair to me!!! omg
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Especially when it’s someone new or a talking stage like huh??
Replying to @tsizzle2real_
No literally. When people talk about billings so casually, I get so confused because how will I even start to fix my mouth to yarn that😭😭😭😭
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Researching and thinking to not say anything is rather peaceful actually. You’ll have well-developed thoughts on random things, observe new info, and decide what to continue to think/believe from there. No arguing, defending, or “this you?” if you change your mind later.
How it feels to write a substack
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In a world that demeans women, be a very vocal woman- ask questions, challenge the system but most importantly read.
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Very much unfazed by casual racism here ngl. Besides being rare, when people stare, I just assume they like my outfit/hair. Can’t hear racist slurs hurled at me (if they even are) since I always have airpods in anyway.
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there’s nothing to prove. Exist freely
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Head strong in ignorance and loud af on top of that.
one of the stranger parts of being an adult is realising how many people have never questioned a single belief they inherited, not even out of curiosity.
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