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Im also not a fan of the "im still my own person" mindset, especially in a marriage. Yes, you have your own thoughts and autonomy and thats GOOD but this is your LIFE PARTNER. Your soulmate. You belong to them and them to you. You need to put them first and demand that they reciprocate. Idk crazy take I guess but you are NOT your own person when you get married or even in a serious relationship. You have someone dependent on you. If you can't be that, you should really ask yourself if you're ready for that commitment
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Hot take: you DO owe your partner physical intimacy
Not as some free-use sex slave but as their sole romantic partner
Humans derive a lot of their emotional attachment through physical touch and taking that away is cruel and neglectful. I think that becoming essentially roommates is an awful fate that befalls a ton of relationships.
Its understandable if you feel like intimacy is a chore. We've all been tired, stressed, or sick. But your partner has physical and emotional needs that you promised to fulfill in exchange for exclusivity and love when you agreed to get together. You dont get to neglect that if you can help it. Modern life is busy and crazy and sometimes it feels like everyone demands too much from you. But thats why you lean on your partner. You owe it to them (and they to you) to never let your intimacy grow complacent!
Horrible topic btw.
If you have a partner and never show them you desire them, then smth is wrong on YOUR side.
And the “i was busy, i was stressed i had lots to do” doesnt mean shit, its an easy excuse to avoid responsibility.
Cuddles dont take energy.
Snuggled dont take energy.
Love doesnt take energy.
Going up to ur partner and just cuddling them tight and kissing them takes no energy, yet it shows love.
Love is sharing with someone your personal space.
And i think it was pretty silly that he stop initiating, it showed obviously that ur the problem and all you can do is go “he tested me! So mean! How could he”
how could he?
HOW COULD YOU NOT LOVE HIM FOR THIS LONG AND MAKE YOURSELF THE VICTIM?!
seriously how DARE you?!
FOR ONE GOD DAMN MOMENT THINK ABOUT HOW U MADE HIM FEEL, THINK HOW IT FEELS TO BE UNLOVED BY SOMEONE YOU LOVE DEARLY.
u dont deserve no fucking pity
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Most people in France can't afford housing.
They didn't blame immigrants, or transgender people, or video games, or avocado toast.
They blame the government. Because that's who's responsible. That's always who's responsible.
Every now and again I want to have a hoon.
Often there will be a bird that will make me slow down. A sign.
Today it wasn’t a bird it was a bunch of old ladies.
