this community can be so cruel M2K has autism, and as much as you want to say “it’s no excuse”, no one is perfect and new circumstances can happen which can be things to learn from. This is one of those cases and he has learned from it. He has no family that wants to take care of him He relies on the few friends he has to be able to live anywhere and often those living conditions aren’t ideal He was told he shouldn’t go to the event, and he listened and agreed. please have some grace and don’t bully another member of the community into further mental decline