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Replying to @precioushaj
Same. I really love it
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Replying to @precioushaj
Perfect I’ll be in your DM once I set it up 😘
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Replying to @precioushaj
O ti da. Welcome and thank you! Are you happy to jump on a zoom call to have a conversation about this?
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Calling my Ilorin peeps! Now is your chance to flaunt your culture o. 🤭 If you are able and willing to describe the traditions of a Ilorin (Muslim) wedding, please indicate below 👇🏾 (or in my DMs) Thank you for supporting my ministry @zumamalicious @enisullyman you’re up!!!
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Replying to @Mrbhadoosky
E reach to looool
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Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
Your own mama no still dey spend money on you?! 🤣 Bcos my own still sent me foodstuff from Naija recently o, at this my big age 🤭 Ani ki Oloun ma bunkun wa
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Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
He’s now on 47 Hopefully his feet have stopped growing, now that he’s in his 20s
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From age 14 till he’s become responsible for himself, I get the son only one pair of shoes at a time Because he outgrew them like kilode and he was wearing size 45 as a teenager so we had to buy from American brands or custom made from Naija Wo! Parenting na scam 🤣
One term, (Week one O), my son lost one leg of his sport shoe. I almost cried. Got him a pair of sneakers in July this year in his size. August, we had a party, oya wo bata, ko ma size e! O ma dun mi o How do you go from a size 37 to a 39?? Emi Iya e gan, I wear 37.
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So… his consent would have made it ok?
In ISLAM Abortion is prohibited.
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Guys. Guys! Look what I found!!!
Replying to @roving_thinker
My brain has refused to tell me where I kept these glasses ATP, I might just have to accept that they are lost 😞
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This sounds great, as long as the passive “raising men” here is not laid at the feet of women Hold men accountable for their actions - that’s the only root Until then, women should arm themselves with whatever they need to navigate life, including their own money
Replying to @qaozy
It is raising men with empathy Families functioning like they should when issues arise Dealing with ourselves with the fear of Allah Of course, I am not against a woman making her own money but it shouldn't be in anticipation of a man treating her terribly.
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Muti'ah Badruddeen retweeted
i need muslim women to stop this rubbish infantilisation of themselves under the guise of haya. you’re an adult, stop feigning naïveté, there’s a lot of resources at your fingertips. educate yourself. you have to learn to navigate the world we live in.
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This has got to be engagement farming
Recently I’ve seen a lot of people complaining about being asked to clean an Airbnb when they’ve already paid a cleaning fee As a host, I find this attitude quite worrying My wife and I rent out the apartment in Germany. We charge a €145 cleaning fee, and we still expect guests to: 1. Strip the beds and start a wash, separating whites from colours 2. Wash, dry and put away all dishes 3. Sweep and mop the floors 4. Take out all rubbish, separating paper, cardboard, clear glass, coloured glass, plastics, metal, organic waste and residual waste 5. Take bottles with a deposit to the supermarket return machine. 6. Send photos showing the apartment is ready before the 8:30am checkout These tasks must be completed before departure. If you have an early flight, allow time the evening before The cleaning fee pays for professional cleaning. It does not pay for someone to pick up after you Here in Europe, we teach children to leave a place as they found it I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect the same from adults on holiday
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Replying to @_Rafiat
I delight in hiding owe in English to see how long before anyone catches on 😁
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Replying to @Wardah_abbas
Same. Not watching, refuse to comment. May Allaah grant her good
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And surrounding yourself/ talking with older women who currently live the life you aspire to This has never happened before, is a scare-mongering tactic Open your mouth and talk to women!!!
Having money is not the only way to empower yourself as a woman. Have principles and beliefs you standby. Be disciplined. Be a talk and do woman. You can be struggling and still stand your ground ASF. Be wise.
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Replying to @__kayah_
She should block everybody!!!
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Replying to @drorydress
What’s the raads-r test?
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Me, whenever anyone tells me to start a substack (in my head only though, cos saying what I REALLY think didn’t go too well in the jungle of my Nigerian boarding school):
my only issue is people aren’t reading enough to be writing all these substacks.
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Replying to @MsNemah
I mean, apart from hot dog, most of them were close At that age I’d have been like he goes to work
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