Lazymaxxing your life with babies, 0y to 3y 1. Don't buy a baby crib. Put as big a mattress as you have space for on the floor and cosleep. Preferably put it in another room than the master bedroom - sometimes baby will have hard nights but you don't want two adult zombies in the house 2. Go everywhere you want. Buy a sling or baby sack, put baby there and go for coffee. Visit a friend with an older baby and ask to try all the baby wearing devices they have, you'll find a perfect one. Have to admit it is much easier to do in a friendly climate 3. Breastfeed if you can. It will allow you not to think about baby food for months and go out easier 4. Yes you can take baby to that museum or rock concert 5. When the baby is older slowly introduce the same food as you are eating at home 6. You don't need baby courses to develop baby brains. Talk to them. Let them cook with you or help with the laundry 7. Teach kids that there are boring times of the day. I think boredom is just the best gift you can present them, we all need space for creativity. 8. Read to your kids. 9. Yes it is ok to use diapers for a longer time but then spend just one day on potty training. 10. Teach them to cook their own food. They will be so proud! 11. Kids won't eat unhealthy food if you only have healthy food at home