Lover of long novels, old friends, and black coffee. Aunt of four, priest, former redhead, recovering southerner. All is grace.

Washington, DC
Joined February 2010
“Sin, he reflected, is not what it is usually thought to be; it is not to steal and tell lies. Sin is for one man to walk brutally over the life of another and to be quite oblivious of the wounds he has left behind.” - Shusaku Endo, “Silence”
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Belated sermon fodder question: When was a time when someone surprised you (or you surprised someone else!) by saying yes to something totally unexpectedly, or that was a long-shot of an ask?
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A little hesitant to ask, but l*ng c*vid question: Has anyone else experienced (or heard of) a recurrence of hives months after a covid infection? I had a very mild case of covid back in the fall (my first), but I did have hives that would come and go for several weeks. (1/2)
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Two days ago, I broke out on hives all over my face and neck, and they haven’t gotten any better. They respond slightly to Claritin & Benadryl, but not much. I can’t identify any other allergic triggers. Would be grateful for any insight before I scratch my face off…
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Before you book on @AmericanAir, know that if you pay for a class of service that includes seat selection but that flight is operated by a codeshare partner, the other airline can charge you for seat selection & AA will tell you there’s “absolutely nothing they can do about it.”
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I’ll admit I didn’t get the Advent wreath out until tonight. But I finished my sermon for tomorrow and had a few quiet minutes to light a candle, drink a cup of tea, and read this dose of beauty. God, grant me the faith to speak of things impossible.
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(Poem by Drew Jackson, from “God Speaks Through Wombs”)
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Ok, folks: I’m spending some time with the Magnificat this Advent. Who has poems or art based on it that they recommend?
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Sermon crowd-sourcing: What are some euphemisms we use when people don't want to name unpleasant or taboo situations? (Example: When some southerners used to refer to the Civil War as "the recent unpleasantness")
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Ok, friends: What’s the best novel you read in the last year (or so), and why did you love it?
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My autocorrect has taken to capitalizing words like Hope and Justice. Am I German without knowing it? Do I now speak only of platonic forms? What’s the deal?
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Spent a glorious weekend in NYC where I took basically no pictures, but at least I grabbed this one through the bus window on the way home.
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I’d really like to know how Alaska Airlines updated this flight information 8 minutes from now.
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WHY IS IT SO DARK AND CAN I GO TO BED NOW?
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My brother & I both love to cook. I’m going to his house for Thanksgiving. When he asked if I’d thought about a menu at all, and I told him I hadn’t but would, this was his response. In case you’re wondering, this is how you make an overly responsible Enneagram 1 feel loved.
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In case anyone is wondering, this is what happens when you let a carrot go to flower in your garden… Aren’t they just gorgeous?!? (This was an intentional experiment, btw.)
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See, the nice thing about often as not wearing head-to-toe black is that when you decide at 5:15 pm on Halloween that you should dress up to hand out candy to trick-or-treaters, you’re only some construction paper, bobby pins, and eyeliner away from a costume.
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This is why I cannot leave this site.
In honor of Reformation Day and in memory of Matthew Perry, I present my latest mashup thread: the story of the Reformation as told through Friends GIFs.
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“Grief work is the seedbed for Advent hope.” ~ Kelley Nikondeha, The First Advent in Palestine
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Raise your hand if you’re a woman who went to graduate school and is—shockingly!—underpaid compared to your male peers…. 🙋🏻‍♀️
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