When my friend's elder brother came to the UK, his family agreed that he would contribute and bring each of his siblings every three years. There are just four, and he his the first child. The second year he got to the UK, he impregnated a Nigerian lady he met here, and the agreement changed. By the third year, he cut everyone off. Because, in his words, "he has a family to care for" His parents and siblings contributed and sent the second child, who has helped bring her other siblings in 5 years. 7 years later, he discovered that the woman he married has been cheating on him all this while, and the two kids they have together don't belong to him. The worst part is that all the properties he bought were either in his wife's name or his son's name. She has sent him out of the house, and he has nowhere to stay. He has been trying to reach his siblings, but none of them are willing to help. Last I heard, he's planning to go back to Nigeria with the little money he has left