First career knock for Bennett Freiter!

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Parents of North American baseball players — we need to talk real talk. The system is stacked against your kid in ways the Dominican academies never are. Down there, 16-year-olds get signed and developed in a pro environment where they can fail, adjust, and grow without losing their shot. Here? It’s “win this game today or you don’t play, don’t get seen, don’t develop.” Travel ball, showcases, and high school have turned into a high-pressure, pay-to-play meat grinder. MLB is drafting more college guys because the high school pipeline is broken for most kids. If we don’t adapt how we guide our players, fewer North American kids are going to make it. Here’s how to actually help your kid in this “win now” system: 1. Stop chasing wins. Chase development. The scoreboard doesn’t matter in 12U–14U. The kid who strikes out or boots a ball today might be the one who figures it out in 3 years. Find coaches and teams that play to develop, not to win trophies. If your son’s coach benches him for errors or only plays the “winners,” leave. Winning-obsessed environments stunt growth. 2. Prioritize the right environment over the “best” team. The flashiest travel team with the most showcases often means more games, more pressure, more cost, and less actual teaching. Look for: • Coaches who teach mechanics and game IQ • Programs that limit innings/pitch counts • Teams that still let kids play multiple positions Quality reps beat quantity of games every time. 3. Build an athletic foundation first. Too many kids specialize too early and get hurt or plateau. Multi-sport athletes (especially ones who play sports that build explosiveness, coordination, and decision-making) often develop better baseball players long-term. Strength training, mobility, and speed work from a young age beats another weekend tournament. 4. Teach them how to fail. This is the biggest gap. In the Dominican system, failure is part of the process. Here, one bad tournament can kill confidence and playing time. Teach your kid: • Errors and strikeouts are data, not identity • Film their at-bats and defensive plays • Focus on process goals (“load better,” “stay back”) instead of outcome goals (“get a hit”) The kids who learn to handle failure become the ones who keep improving when others quit. 5. Be ruthless about money and time. Travel ball is expensive. Before you spend thousands, ask: • Is this actually developing my kid or just exposing him to scouts who mostly watch the already-developed kids? • Would that money be better spent on private lessons, strength training, or a better summer program?
Target 3–5 high-quality events per year instead of 15 mediocre ones. 6. Lean into the college route — it’s often the best path now. Since MLB is drafting more polished college players, treat high school as preparation for college baseball, not just the draft. Good academics + strong baseball = leverage. D1 or strong D2/D3 programs develop players extremely well. Many late bloomers explode in college. 7. Protect the love of the game. The fastest way to kill a kid’s future is to make baseball feel like a job at 12 years old. If they’re not having fun, they won’t put in the extra work when it gets hard. The international kids who make it are usually obsessed because baseball was their way out. Your kid needs intrinsic drive. Bottom line: The North American system rewards the kids whose parents understand the game is long. Play the long game. Focus on making your son a better baseball player and athlete in 3–5 years, not this weekend’s championship. The kids who survive and thrive in this pressure cooker are the ones who were developed the right way — even when the scoreboard didn’t cooperate.

Yesterday I wrapped up my college baseball career as well as my playing career. I was reflecting on some things that I wish I knew coming into college or somethings that I would tell younger players interested in playing college baseball. So here they are in no particular order⬇️

All-Summit League Honorable Mention 🦬 Bennett Freiter - C 🦬 Diego Trujillo - 3B 🦬 Chase Womack - 1B 🦬 Dante Smith - OF

This mother is catching some flack because she said she sits on the opposite side of the parents on her son’s baseball team. Looks like the outfield. She said she can’t stand the constant chatter and lingo - “Good eye!” , “You got a piece of it.!” , etc. and all the talk in the bleachers. Many put her down saying she is not a team player as a parent. But some others said they agreed with her. I am with her. I usually sat down the line on first or third base. I want to watch the game and not chatter all night and listen to moms and dads coach their kids from the stands. Or all the gossip. I totally get it. Do you understand where this momma is coming from and feel like she does or do you think it’s rude of her to disassociate with the other parents during the game?