jane.

lagi nonton study group dan sumpah LUCU BANGET. semuanya kocak dan konyol mampus.

terus prabowo bilang, “saya ikut kalau begitu, kita mulai berdua maka berakhirlah berdua” (mimpi basah wni)

adek lagi mandi. 🤏🏻

i fall for someone’s mind first, honestly. intelligence, humour, emotional maturity and the way they carry themselves. physical attraction might catch my attention, but their character is what makes me want to stay.

it’s been a while. my last relationship lasted three years, so i’m not particularly interested in rushing into another one. i’d rather take my time and make sure the next person is someone i genuinely see a future with.

poor communication, inconsistency, lack of accountability and disrespect disguised as jokes. i also pay attention to how someone treats people they have nothing to gain from. character shows in the little things, not just how they treat you when they want something.

it depends on how things ended. i’m not against staying friends, but i won’t force a friendship just because we used to be close. if keeping in touch makes it harder to move on, i’d rather cut contact and leave things where they belong.

realising that missing someone doesn’t mean they’re still right for you. at some point, you have to stop romanticising what you had and accept that walking away is sometimes the healthiest thing you can do for yourself.

i’d bring it up directly. positive thinking doesn’t mean ignoring things that make you uncomfortable. i’d rather communicate and give them a chance to explain than keep overthinking in silence. how they respond would tell me a lot.

honestly, i miss the feeling of having someone to share things with, but i don’t necessarily miss being in a relationship. i’d rather be on my own than force a connection just because i miss being loved.

never mistake tolerating everything for being a good partner. love requires compromise, but it shouldn’t cost you your identity, self-respect or peace of mind. the right person won’t make you feel guilty for being yourself.

my ex had a way of making their rules sound like healthy boundaries, until i realised i was slowly changing parts of myself just to keep the relationship peaceful. it taught me that love shouldn’t require losing yourself to make someone comfortable.

yes, because love was never meant to survive on butterflies alone. it’s choosing each other on ordinary days, through disagreements, changes and difficult moments. but it takes two people willing to keep showing up, not just one trying to keep the relationship alive.

ngga ada yang bisa mengalahkan egonya anak bontot. gak jadi mam rawon kemarin, hari ini aku masak sendiri. #proud #anjay #chef

i don’t think we talk enough about outgrowing friendships without having to hate the person. sometimes there’s simply nothing left to connect over and that’s reason enough to let the friendship go. not every ending needs a villain.

me 💔 rawon.

@ all my moots. 🫳🏻