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Me when im fried ranting about the most diabolical shit that shud happen to comprised ppl within our system lol
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High munchies...I really want zucchini and cabbage fried up lmaoo like wtf 馃槅馃槀 and I want an ice cream float
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One can only hope lol I'm too cowardly n prideful to admit how scared for the future I actually am. I truly never expected to make it this far. It's either gonna be epic or I'm gonna die idk. I've been dreaming like crazy lately! Which I never do when I smoke so WHY am I now?
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So I have also scared myself thinking I am gonna die cuz it's my bday next month FML i wish I had a crystal ball and everyone is dying. Like I just cling to faith more than ever, cuz it's all I have in these times. The one thing I can depend on. I also ponder like ya
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general in these times is a fuckn thankless job is all I will say. God bless all the GOOD HUSBAND'S, WORKING MOMS AND SAHM who have respect for each other and value what their spouse does on the daily. The unsung heroes that get shit on daily. Ur job as a parent is far greater
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women for staying to themselves. Nothing will change until men address there are a FUCK TON of bad apples and not a few like they LOVE to proclaim n defend online. Alot of men really ain't shit and are NOT worth the privilege of having a child with. Being a mom and woman in
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this all together cuz ur playing a losing game potentially with the wrong partner and there are a fuck ton of awful dudes masquerading as tho they are not. So ya continue to shit on sahm and women in general, continue to down play roles and see what happens..I don't even blame
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are somehow doing more. Kid or no kid ud have to work regardless so why the FUCK is a husband working greater than the mom who held off on her goals for the children some how trivialized? I will tell u, cuz their is no RESPECT..this is the average man n how they think and I can
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pay for childcare then...both ppl work and everything is split 50/50. This is what MANY men do...they have ZERO respect for their partner, what role they play in the family/relationship..neglect their own role as an active parent cuz...,"they make money" and becuz of that they
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This is the problem with the world as a whole and within relationships. There's is zero respect for sahm..I have never seen a more delusional take....God bless for leading such a privileged existence to think sahm are with a dude making that much...second when has childcare ever
This is a MAJOR problem with Stay at Home Moms (SAHM) , and I'm sorry ladies but the problem is very likely YOU.
First off, it goes without saying that childbirth and breastfeeding is an incredible strain on the mother and women are amazing for doing it.
But, I'm sorry, NO childcare is not an equal trade for your husbands job.
I see this all the time with friends and other dads online.
The mom equates raising the kid with the man's job, and then believes the rest of the duties should be split.
Ur completely delusional.
Childcare is valued at $2000-$2500/mo. It's a minimum wage job.
A house cleaner is valued at $2800/mo. It's also around a minimum wage job.
So combine them both together and the value the SAHM is contributing to the household is around $60k/yr.
Guess what? If you are a SAHM, your husband is likely pulling in $150k/yr+.
So the market is saying your husbands work (after taxes) is TWICE as valuable as you raising the kid and doing ALL the house chores.
It's priceless that you get to raise your kid and give them a ton of attention that they wouldn't get at daycare.
It's priceless that you're husband makes enough that it's even possible for you to be a SAHM.
Meanwhile, I see dad's contributing more than ever.
I personally wake up, make the kids breakfast, take them to school, do a full-time job, and then try to help out around the house some when I get home. I take the kids to dance and sports after work.
And I know for many other dad's with SAHM, they are doing this too.
And it's so sad the amount of times I hear SAHM leave the laundry, the dishes, all the house chores to be done after the husband gets home from work.
Because "childcare is a full-time job" and the rest should be 50/50. No ladies, go get a $150k/yr+ job, put your kid in daycare, and then the rest can be 50/50.
This woman's example is extreme, at least how she's framing it, but sorry ladies, the problem is indeed you in about 80% of these situations.
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