The problem that ppl have with you is that you didn’t lay down and die. They purposely excluded you, talked down on you, sabotaged opportunities and relationships for you but they were still unsuccessful at breaking your spirit. They thought that by taking certain things from you, spreading lies about you and trying to isolate you from the things that you loved -that you would give up on yourself, be too insecure to thrive and whither away in the background but you rose like the pheonix and became bigger and better than you’ve ever been. These set backs were the fuel for your ascension.