I will never give up on the belief that I have a divine counterpart that was made just for me. Not a toxic twin flame. Not a karmic soulmate. A divine counterpart. I believe every soul has one. Maybe it takes them several lifetimes to find each other but I won't let bad experiences make me give up on that belief that he's out there for me. I don't chase, I attract. What will happen in divine timing will find it's way to me. Until then, I know my standards will be high. I won't ignore red flags. I won't have to because this person will reset my nervous system. I will never once feel ego or negativity from this person. This person will embody love and match my exact frequency. No more, no less. I will say this. It won't be anyone with a criminal history. It won't be anyone who participates in fraud for money or is on house arrest. It won't be someone with a large social media following who uses it to seek validation. It won't be someone who drinks. At all. And if they do, only holidays or very special occasions. It won't be someone who smokes cigarettes. It won't be someone who is interested in doing drugs. It won't be someone who uses silence as a weapon to punish you for expressing things that bother you. It won't be someone who needs to control. It won't be someone who switches up on you. It won't be someone fake. And it definitely won't be love-bombed. It will be safe. It will be gentle. It will be reassuring. Trust will come naturally. Actions will match words. They will make time for me visually or verbally beyond words on a screen every single day to consistently build trust and vulnerability. It won't distance. It won't detach. But most importantly of all, it won't give up when things get hard. It will communiticate immediately to resolve problems. It will never just abandon. Or it was never real to begin with. I don't think I require much. I don't think i'm difficult. And you should always have expectations. Because even if it leads to disappointment, at least you will know the truth. Without expectations, you have no boundaries. You're just a doormat. Where anyone can step in set the standards for you. Fuck that. Set your own standards and have high expectations! Because that's what you fucking deserve. And not a damn thing less.