Ivie🤭 retweeted
i don't think our purpose in life is to get married, build a business, become successful, or achieve some extraordinary version of ourselves. those can all be beautiful expressions of life, but i don't think they're why we're here.
i think we're here to fall in love with the human being we came here to experience.
there's something beautiful about realizing that the one person who's been with you through every version of yourself is you. through every mistake, every heartbreak, every achievement, every moment of uncertainty. you've witnessed it all from within, in a way nobody else ever could.
and maybe that's what the deepest form of self-love really is. learning to look at yourself the way a loving parent looks at their child. not because they're perfect, but because they're theirs. allowing yourself to grow without hating who you are, forgiving yourself without making excuses, and understanding yourself with the same patience you so willingly extend to others.
we spend so much of our lives trying to become someone worthy of being chosen. chasing success to feel accomplished, relationships to feel wanted, and validation to feel enough. somewhere along the way, we start treating ourselves as projects that need fixing rather than people worth experiencing.
but there's a difference between wanting to be loved and making someone else's love the condition upon which you allow yourself to love your own life.
you can want someone without needing to convince them to choose you. you can love deeply without abandoning yourself. you can experience rejection without turning it into a verdict on your worth.
and perhaps when you stop chasing love as proof that you're enough, you begin approaching life from a place of love instead of a fear of not receiving it.
you stop trying so hard to be loved, and start becoming someone who knows how to love, including themselves.
maybe that's the whole point. not to become extraordinary enough to deserve love, but to realize you never needed to become extraordinary to deserve it in the first place.
after all, the longest relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself. might as well make it a beautiful one.
Better if she decides to sell it, she needs to move far away to where those leeches can’t find her and her kids.
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Alhaji Atiku? 👀
THE APC ONLY FOUND A RHYME IN BOLA AND EBOLA
.@officialABAT through Dele Alake and the @OfficialAPCNg have made a remarkable discovery: “Bola” sounds like “Ebola.” We had not noticed. They found the rhyme, wrote a lengthy press statement about it and somehow still could not tell Nigerians where the ₦10 billion ordered released for Ebola preparedness is. If only they searched the accounts with the same enthusiasm they brought to the dictionary.
These aren’t just rhyming words; the effect of Bola’s policies is as deadly as the dreaded Ebola.
Ebola destroys lives through disease. Bola’s policies have made food and medical care unaffordable and buried businesses that Nigerians spent years building. Yet the APC wants a debate about how two words sound.@atiku asked for the money trail and an account of the emergency response. The party in power came back with a pronunciation lesson. What an extraordinary way to tell a frightened country it has no answers.
On 9 June, the Presidency announced that President Tinubu had ordered the immediate release of ₦10 billion for Ebola emergency preparedness. Now, with a case confirmed in Abuja, the APC says the money remains “untouched”. It presents that claim as a defence. It is an indictment of the Bola administration.
Was the money released or was it not? If it was released, where is it held, who controls it, and why has it not been used for the preparedness President Tinubu announced? If it was never released, why was an order for its immediate release announced in June? Publish the release documents, the account records and the Task Force’s expenditure reports. Insulting Atiku Abubakar will not account for one naira.
The APC says an infected person cannot transmit Ebola before symptoms appear. That is true. It does not answer what happened after symptoms appeared. According to the World Health Organization’s account, the patient developed symptoms on 7th October, sought care at a private facility on 11th October, and received laboratory confirmation on 20th October. When was Ebola first suspected? When were public health authorities alerted? When was testing ordered? When did contact tracing begin?
The APC claims surveillance “tipped off” the government. Then publish the timeline. Name the agency that raised the alert, give the date and explain the action taken. 44 identified contacts are people whose health must be protected. They are not a trophy for an APC press release.
Health workers treating the patient and tracing contacts deserve protection, equipment and every resource needed to act quickly. Questioning the government’s preparedness is no insult to them. Demanding applause for President Tinubu while refusing to explain an untouched emergency fund is an insult to Nigerians.
The APC also objects to our warning that a health emergency must never be used to interfere with campaigning or voting. President Tinubu’s government can address that concern directly: publish any proposed restrictions, their medical justification and the advice of the health authorities. Public health guidance must protect people. It must never become a political tool.
President Tinubu ordered ₦10 billion released in June. His party now says it is untouched. That contradiction came from the Presidency and the APC. They should resolve it with records.
Show Nigerians where the money is. Explain the response timeline. Protect health workers. Trace every contact. President Tinubu and the APC owe the country answers not ‘Bola-Ebola’ tales.
Signed:
Phrank Shaibu
Director of Strategic Communication,
ADC Presidential Campaign Council.
23rd October 2026
As a Christian, shouldn’t you be identifying with Christ instead of your pastor?
People are schooling for free all over Europe without leaking ceilings, say something else pls. 1 million per student, in a country where minimum wage is 70k. Your education is quite questionable sir.
How can leaving a man who was exposed as a chronic cheat be termed a mistake?
Would you tell your guys that they’re making a mistake if they decided to end things with a cheating partner? I don’t think so
Ivie🤭 retweeted
Poor lad. It honestly broke my heart and my eyes teared hearing his shaky voice. seeing how much pressure was placed on him to take a side. And somehow, he still managed to acknowledge the pain and concerns of both peoples, admit that he doesn’t know enough to pretend otherwise, and choose unity through music instead of adding more division.
Please leave him alone after this. Stop weaponizing him for political agendas. Let the noise die down. Let the man sing. Let him create. Just let him be. @edsheeran
To think that you’re a father of girls. Imagine suing someone for defiling one of them only to come online to find people vouching for him. You guys have zero empathy for victims until it’s your turn to be one. Shame!
I hope Poco Lee beats this. Hate it or love it, I personally think he is one of the happiest people a lot of us have met. He will fill the room with joy, never gets In a fight and respects everyone. The other vices he is accused of is a serious one and beyond comprehension. Let the law takes it cause but I’ll continue to stand with what I know about him till he is proven guilty
There’s a way you’ll handle my personal belongings that will make me give you the side eye
Imagine now hitting my child, they’ll gather for me and you. I was raised in a home where only our parents were allowed to spank us, and I intend to keep it that way
Your maid spanked your child for doing something wrong, and your child came to report to you, or you heard her crying and asked what happened. She goes, “That new girl that’s cleaning spanked me.” 😭😭 The new girl doesn’t have a name or what??
Same you that have fired six nannies in less than three months. At some point, you really need to ask yourself some questions. 😭
Parents really need to treat their domestic staff better and also train their children properly. And let’s not forget that kids can be dramatic sometimes.
