We have a tendency to expect everyone to be a finished product, but we give ourselves room to evolve and grow. The only way to better instead of bitter, is to give others the same grace you give yourself.
We are human. Humans make mistakes. Humans do dumb shit. Humans lose focus. Humans need grace. (Grace is when you make a mistake and the other person chooses to overlook it and not punish you constantly for it).
Allow yourself to be human.
It takes courage to face yourself, this is why most people play the blame game and never take self responsibility. You start growing and thriving in life only when you become self accountable.
Back in the day, the whole community would help raise kids. Multiple generations would offer support. Now everyone is alone. That’s why having kids seems so daunting.
