Nothing kills my interest faster than a man who brings up sex in the first few conversations. attraction isn't just physical. if you can't build a real connection with my mind first, you'll never get access to anything else.
You know that breakup did some serious damage when you go from anxiously attached to the final boss of avoidant attachment. lmaooo 馃槶
a man will chase me like i'm the love of his life until i finally catch feelings too. then suddenly he's busy, emotionally unavailable, or "not ready for a relationship." like, am i dating men or am i an unwilling participant in some psychological experiment?
nobody tells you that the hardest part of being lied to isn't the truth coming out. it's realising how comfortable they were looking you in the eyes while you believed every word.
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Why do some men become better husbands for their second wife after breaking their first wife? 馃挱馃憖
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All an eldest daughter wants is a man she doesn鈥檛 have to be strong around. Someone who can take the lead, handle things, and make her feel safe enough to finally let her guard down.
sometimes, you鈥檙e not just grieving what you went through. you鈥檙e also grieving all the things you could鈥檝e experienced, the person you could鈥檝e been, and the life you might鈥檝e had if it had never happened.
Dating these days is actually ridiculous. someone will chase you for months, make you feel wanted, earn your trust, and make you believe they鈥檙e serious about you. then the moment you finally let your guard down and give them the same energy, they vanish like a free trial that just expired. and somehow, you鈥檙e left questioning your worth when all you did was finally open your heart to someone.
Betrayal hits different when you realize they let you trust them with your whole heart while knowing damn well they were sitting there lying straight to your face with their raggedy ass soul.
can we talk about how frustrating it is to be self-aware as hell and still struggle with your emotions? you know your triggers, recognize your patterns, and understand exactly why you react the way you do, yet somehow still struggle to regulate yourself. like damn, i understand what鈥檚 happening psychologically. can my nervous system PLEASE get the memo too?!
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Why is a woman expected to adjust to her husband鈥檚 family, but rarely is a man expected to adjust to hers? 馃憖





