mostly wholesome, often curious

Joined June 2020
unpinning this tweet bc it worked
New plan: Find a Husband. Then together: Start a vegetable garden. Cook good foods. Smoke meats. Build a chicken coop. Plant fruit trees. Make jam. Bake sourdough. Brew kombucha. Play music. Woodshop in the garage. Go camping. Paint the walls. Read books. Take a nap. Make love.
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I'm realizing people have very different priors wrt how likely someone is to be cognitively strange, vs cognitively high-performing like I find it much more plausible that Elizabeth Holmes has weird and non-intuitive motivations and reasoning, than that her motivations are predictable but she's just astoundingly good at lying and manipulating
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tbc I'm not saying I don't think she was lying, just that it's more likely in some absolutely weirdo way than a calculated 4D chess way
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it doesn't really change anything, artistic integrity-wise, if Billy didn't accept money for the documentary, given that he believed he was getting money throughout the entire filming
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people with the "Anti-Elon Tesla Club" stickers on their Teslas seem kind of memecucked if you ask me
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maybe the stickers are manufactured in child sweatshops. and then I imagine they would need a series of fractally smaller stickers to try to ward off new judgements
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I am surprised that I haven't seen any "do Billy and Liz genuinely love each other though?" discourse
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same with every recipe with caramelized onions or reducing a sauce! it takes like 10x longer than they say!
i feel like every single recipe with potatoes is gaslighting me "cook five minutes until soft" WHAT kind of potatoes do that
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a thing I wonder about this, ignoring the childcare aspect what would be the etiquette asking for a non-weekend trip (say Tuesday to Thursday), where your friends are expected to request 3 vacation days off work? what's a comparable imposition that doesn't have to do with kids?
My friend wants to plan a couples, no-kids weekend getaway, splitting the cost of a large AirBNB, in January for her 30th birthday. I really do not love this idea (husband is mortified), neither to spend the money nor to get someone to take the toddler for 3 days. It would be a 2.5 hour drive away for us, too, so it’s not like we’re close if something happens. I haven’t been away from him for even 1 night yet and he still just seems so young! It would be very hard to leave him for that long. Am I just a party pooper who needs to get over it? Genuine question. Like I actually need advice here guys
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solution: write down meals you like on index cards, shuffle through them when you aren't sure what to make ignoring whether you "should" have this problem, there are ways to solve it!
Why is this such a difficult thing for women? Nearly, every woman I know (except Mom, who still has a rigid schedule for each night) struggles to think dinner. Not actually MAKE dinner, but think of what to make and this is an incredibly stressful thing for them.
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if I had to guess, men would have an easier time making meal decisions than women partly due to differences in caloric/micronutrient demands? men seem more likely to want "protein gymslop, again" and women more likely "idk I'm thinking smth with, like... walnuts? ...smth green?"
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husband: "it's trash night tonight" me, deep Holmes voice: "I, uh... I feel like I don't know anything about that..."
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I've been focused on work projects the last several weeks but I think I'll pause for a little general apocalypse prepping
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nice thing about my day: today I was in the kitchen and someone walked up from behind and hugged me, and for a moment it could have been any of three people
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in a parallel universe, not cosine distant from our own, Elizabeth Holmes has several Elon babies
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was wondering to my husband earlier why people like Nathan Fielder's comedy so much when they really dislike those same behaviors in real life his explanation is that ppl like it only when they are "in on the bit", and that feeling "brought in" is also why they like YCSE so much
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speaking of documentaries, "Get Back" is really good
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@occamsriver did you ever see this one? It's very interesting relationally and I'd be super curious to hear your impressions
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Amanda Seyfried interprets everything in terms of archetypes and stories and then acts out giant emotions corresponding to those. So she plays "The Normie" to Nathan Fielder's "The Autist", who struggles to assemble incongruent textual and facial information into a coherent story
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which is why I think it is difficult for me to pinpoint why people like this movie as much as they do; almost everything is like this basically all the time
Replying to @lisatomic5
Did you like it? I'm having trouble figuring out why everyone is fussing over it 🙄 *it kinda feels like being autistic re to my autistic friends* 😂
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ironically I need someone to discuss YCSE with me without getting mad if I keep asking them "ok but why?" à la Nathan Fielder
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