Because no one is coming to save us. Building My Damn Self + Due Process Audit. Evidence organization, court procedures, and the reality of doing it yourself.
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I'm a survivor. I couldn't afford a lawyer and I had a phone full of evidence I couldn't make sense of.
So I built My Damn Self. You put in your texts, screenshots, photos and recordings. It hands you back one packet, in date order, numbered.
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When I told police, I was told it was a civil matter. youtube.com/shorts/D-bFzrRIF…
I called. I texted. Over and over again. But I kept trying. youtube.com/shorts/UN5XtYS3a…
My son is old enough now. He's capable of making his own choices. youtube.com/shorts/8q4fk2dCL…
What the research says. Every source is in the description. youtube.com/shorts/IeXkmjV2Q…
It was based on false accusations, and I was never even given the opportunity to defend myself. youtube.com/shorts/TFw1pegwl…
That 54 minutes destroyed my life. But it's not just my life that it destroyed. It was my kids' lives too. youtube.com/shorts/TBeuplZes…
What the research says. Sources: Howard et al. 2011; Harvard Center on the Developing Child; CDC on adverse childhood experiences; WHO FAQ on parental alienation. mydamnself.com
It was based on false accusations, and I was never even given the opportunity to defend myself. dueprocessaudit.com mydamnself.com
That 54 minutes destroyed my life. From my story, in my words. dueprocessaudit.com mydamnself.com
Judge asks for dates. Now I have them, all on one timeline. Free emergency packet → mydamnself.com Not legal advice. Share this + follow for more 💜
Coercive Control: Know the Pattern — From my story, in my words. Put your evidence in order: mydamnself.com
He's Capable of Making His Own Choices — From my story, in my words. Put your evidence in order: mydamnself.com
"A Civil Matter" — From my story, in my words. Put your evidence in order: mydamnself.com
I Kept Trying — From my story, in my words. Put your evidence in order: mydamnself.com
What's my name? — From my story, in my words. Put your evidence in order: mydamnself.com
Due Process Audit — Lawyers Edition is here.
Office intake, client files, a callback and task queue, and separate logins for lawyers, assistants and students. Client files are sealed. No AI makes up your evidence.
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Do you know what happened in your case, in order, and how long passed between each step?
Due Process Audit lines up your court papers by date, one card per paper: when it happened, what kind of paper it is (filing, notice, order), and which document it came from. It also counts the days between papers, so you can see the gaps.
It won't guess, either. If something can't be found in your papers, it says UNKNOWN, not "didn't happen."
Swipe through to see how to read a timeline. Then line yours up:
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Not legal advice. It uses public records and published rules only. The pictures show an invented sample case.
If you're keeping screenshots, photos, voicemails and court papers in five different places, this is for you.
My Damn Self puts your texts, photos, papers and recordings on one timeline, in date order, and it stays on your device.
Swipe through to see how to read it:
• Each card is one piece of evidence: the date, where that date came from, and its exhibit number
• Add your side in your own words, right on the file
• Narrow it down to just texts, photos, docs or audio when you need one thing fast
• Then it reads like a story: "What happened, in order"
The emergency packet is free for everyone.
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It's an organizing tool, not legal advice. The case in the pictures is made up and every name is blurred.
People who can't afford a lawyer still need to organize their records and understand court procedures.
That's why I'm building My Damn Self and Due Process Audit.
Follow along for practical tips, real demonstrations, and what I'm learning while building them.