ɴɪᴄᴋ ʟᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴄᴋɴᴏᴡʟᴇᴅɢᴇᴍᴇɴᴛ

if you have a cool enough leather jacket they’ll fucking kill you

At a party this guy started talking to me about how I was so beautiful and it's so wasteful I don't "spread my legs"

No I wouldn't have. At 34, I had a hot, 6'4" 27 year old repeatedly giving me ultimatums to commit. If anything I had too many options. I would have hundreds of matches. I would keep a rotating list of 10 ranked prospects. At 35, after a breakup with a guy who admitted just lying the whole time, I was going on 5 dates a week and my standards were not high. I did actually go out with a 53 year old but the sex was terrible so I bounced. The guys who did finally want to date me seriously were the hottest ones and my age. I fell for one but then freaked out over a perceived dealbreaker because I was scared to get hurt again. I never have lacked options. The problem is figuring out if men are real options or just wasting my time. Since 36, I have been telling guys I do not want to date unless they are looking for marriage and kids. Every guy says he is down. I even had a whole contract at one point. I am now 40 and my friend of 6 years told me he had been into me this whole time. I said I do not want to date except for marriage and kids. He said our kids would be supermodels who look like me. He had remembered so many details about me over the years and had saved a bunch of candids he took that I didn't even know about from when we met. I believed him. Honestly at this point I think he was genuine and that I screwed up by being pushy and then kind of an asshole, as people have explained. There is still no lack of options, and if I go to a bar and walk around it's going to be the hottest guys who talk to me not the other way around. But I apparently have to assume most are just liars and fuckboys. I also do not like older men. I do prefer younger and I reject double standards about this. Women have just as much right to choose what we like as men do and should be able to trust that men trying to date us are not just fuckboys lying. Honestly I think the young ones are less likely to be so. Any guy single and going for younger women at 55 is probably sexist and just going to keep trying to go for younger women. 🤮

Chads are hot guys. If a guy was hot and popular in high school, he's usually a nice guy, especially if he has a nice and loyal dad. The forever Chads get their slutty phase, if they ever had one, mostly over with by college. And if they do decide to slut around after that, they do so ethically, though mostly they become relationship guys. If a guy got hot and successful in his 30s after being an awkward loser or fat his whole life before that, he's going to be a manwhore who lies or deceives to get sex and validation from large quantities of women, especially if he had a bad or absent father. Sad and depressing, but this is what I've learned. So I try to find out how guys grew up, their backgrounds, their dads, etc. And I look for old photos.

“On Halloween 2008, the end began. What modernity has been from the start was then sealed.”

Good Dasha Morning ✝️🐿️

One of my favourite things about Art Deco is how it made graphic design feel monumental

This is me, being restrained by social norms

no kids, not a feminist, no pets of my own, ex bf was dead broke. i hate this app

Has any artist ever defined a decade like Patrick Nagel did the 1980s?

Manul morning.

Same girl that posted this is the one who yelled at me and blocked me because i didn’t have sex with her and told me “next time a girl throws herself at you like that you should just sit there and take it.”