(She/Her/Hers) ✨“i'm no hero. i just put my bra on one boob at a time.” Tina Belcher, 2003✨
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i don't think our purpose in life is to get married, build a business, become successful, or achieve some extraordinary version of ourselves. those can all be beautiful expressions of life, but i don't think they're why we're here.
i think we're here to fall in love with the human being we came here to experience.
there's something beautiful about realizing that the one person who's been with you through every version of yourself is you. through every mistake, every heartbreak, every achievement, every moment of uncertainty. you've witnessed it all from within, in a way nobody else ever could.
and maybe that's what the deepest form of self-love really is. learning to look at yourself the way a loving parent looks at their child. not because they're perfect, but because they're theirs. allowing yourself to grow without hating who you are, forgiving yourself without making excuses, and understanding yourself with the same patience you so willingly extend to others.
we spend so much of our lives trying to become someone worthy of being chosen. chasing success to feel accomplished, relationships to feel wanted, and validation to feel enough. somewhere along the way, we start treating ourselves as projects that need fixing rather than people worth experiencing.
but there's a difference between wanting to be loved and making someone else's love the condition upon which you allow yourself to love your own life.
you can want someone without needing to convince them to choose you. you can love deeply without abandoning yourself. you can experience rejection without turning it into a verdict on your worth.
and perhaps when you stop chasing love as proof that you're enough, you begin approaching life from a place of love instead of a fear of not receiving it.
you stop trying so hard to be loved, and start becoming someone who knows how to love, including themselves.
maybe that's the whole point. not to become extraordinary enough to deserve love, but to realize you never needed to become extraordinary to deserve it in the first place.
after all, the longest relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself. might as well make it a beautiful one.
GasStationPrincess retweeted
Ryan Gosling’s band Dead Man’s Bones is set to release new music on October 27.
Their first new release since 2009.
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An incredible powerful and fated love window opens up THIS WEEKEND. Venus is passing into the heart of the Sun, while also making contact with the North and South Nodes that govern karma and destiny. When Venus comes this close to the Sun, it isn't burned, it's EMPOWERED: purified and given full authority beside the King. This also isn't an ordinary Venus–Sun meeting. It is the Venus Star Point, the moment she is REBORN.
This weekend, Love is being PURIFIED, EMPOWERED AND REBORN, at the exact point where karma and destiny meet.
This current Venus contact point is the bottom of the descent. Everything false is stripped off: the masks in love, the bonds kept from fear, the parts of you that you traded away to be loved. What's left is the naked soul. And it's in SCORPIO, the sign of the underworld itself: death, rebirth, the deepest intimacy.
This contact point will seed an 8-year cycle of love, value and relationship. What begins now ripens over the next 8 years. The last time Venus drew her star in Scorpio was October 2018. Look at what love was asking of you then. That story is now completing and being reborn.
In addition, Venus will make contact with the SOUTH NODE: past-life love, the hearts you've already given yourself to, the old story
And the NORTH NODE, where your soul is GOING: destiny, soul family, love that frees and serves something higher.
This contact is a SQUARE, which is a CHOICE YOU MAKE AND HINGE that decides how the past moves into destiny: which love rises with you into your destiny, and which stays in the underworld.
Scorpio is a FIXED sign. Fixed energy binds. Vows made now seed the next 8 years.
WHAT THIS OPENS:
PAST-LIFE LOVERS REUNITE. Someone feels instantly familiar, an old love resurfaces, your body recognizes them before your mind does. A contract is coming due.
SOULMATES AND TWIN FLAMES RE-EMERGE. As Venus rises as the morning star, the ones who came to walk the North Node path with you are revealed.
CURRENT LOVERS RENEW YOUR VOWS. The love cycle is reborn for the next 8 years. What you speak and do now becomes the binding anchor.
Look back to October 2018: who were you loving, what were you learning about love and worth? Write it down. That cycle is completing now.
If you're partnered: look into each other's eyes for two minutes without speaking. Then each say out loud one old pattern you're leaving in the underworld and one thing you'll build together for the next 8 years. Speak your vows again in your own words.
If someone from the past resurfaces: ask, "Does this bond carry me toward my destiny, or back into my old story?" Forward, open the door. Backward, bless them and close it.
If you're single: put your attention in your heart and say, "I release the loves that belong to my past. I call in the soul I'm meant to walk my destiny with. Let me recognize them."
GasStationPrincess retweeted
Leaving a man because he shows little curiosity about your life is valid. You want someone who asks questions, remembers the little details, cares about your thoughts and genuinely wants to understand who you are beyond what you can do for them. You shouldn’t have to keep offering pieces of yourself to someone who never thinks to ask for them. Being listened to is nice, but being genuinely known is something else entirely. You don’t just want someone who loves having you around. You want someone who is actually interested in who you are.
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For the sake of your mental health, learn the difference between being fully chosen and simply being kept around. Being chosen means someone makes an effort to have you in their life. Being kept around means they give you just enough attention to keep you from leaving, but never enough to make you feel secure. One brings you peace. The other leaves you constantly questioning where you stand, overthinking every interaction and wondering whether you’re asking for too much. You deserve to be someone’s intentional choice, not someone’s convenient option. Stop settling for a place in someone’s life when what you really want is to know you belong there.
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We’ve been taught that relationships are difficult because sharing your life with someone means constantly adjusting yourself to accommodate them. But sometimes, the real difficulty comes from being forced to confront parts of ourselves we’ve spent years avoiding. Love brings us face-to-face with generations of conditioning that taught us vulnerability is dangerous, openness is weakness, and letting someone in is a risk we shouldn’t take. For a relationship to truly last, we must be willing to unlearn those fears, confront our past, and allow ourselves to love in ways we may never have seen modeled before.
I’m logging off work at 7:30p on a Friday, my eye is twitching, and it’s almost a full moon.
I think I need to stay inside or be somewhere deep in nature this weekend.
