I just heard one of the craziest gists right now. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Our cook was telling me about her ex yesterday. Let’s assume her name is Joy. Joy said the guy left her and married her friend. And her so called friend was aware that she was dating the guy. When she found out that the guy was now married to her friend, she texted him and congratulated him but he was surprised that she found out that he was married. He kept denying it, saying that he’s not married and has never been married. Apparently, the guy has been trying to get back together with Joy after the breakup but she didn’t really give in. That was why she was surprised that he was married and was still talking to her again. Na there matter cast ooh. The guy got angry and said it’s Joy’s friend who has been forcing herself on him and even held him down with pregnancy. 🤦🏽‍♀️ The guy made a funny statement that I can’t forget. “Someone that I didn’t pay a dime on her head. I don’t even know her family or the road to her father’s house. Is that one marriage?” 😫😭😹🤣 Omooo, as I heard that statement, I didn’t even know if I should laugh and feel sorry for the girl. That same yesterday, the friend called her and started asking her if she knew the guy is now married. She pretended and said No. She asked if she’s still talking to the guy. She said no, but they still have each other’s number and just view each other’s status but they don’t communicate. That was when she told Joy that the guy is now married ooh and she should not allow him deceive her. She said okay and ended the call. Tell me why the same girl called Joy this morning and started crying and telling Joy that she’s actually the on the guy got married to. They got married early this year and she even lost the pregnancy because the guy was maltreating her, starving her and even slapped her on several occasions. The craziest thing now is that the girl is pregnant for him again after she lost the first pregnancy. Joy said she doesn’t believe her story and the guy can never do such a thing because she knows him and he’s not wicked, neither is he violent. That’s how the girl sent her pictures on WhatsApp showing her big tummy and how malnourished and miserable she looks. In short, the guy sent her away and she is now staying with his elder sister because shame no gree her go back her papa house. 🤣😹 To be honest, I honestly don’t know what some women gain from being desperate. A man has shown you signs, countless times that he doesn’t love you, doesn’t want you and doesn’t rate you. Yet, you’re still forcing yourself on him and even got pregnant again! What kind of stupidity is this?

So last week, I just casually told this man that I loved fruits. 🥰 And just today, he decided to show up at my house during his lunch break with these. 🥹 If you see the way I was smiling and blushing eehn. 🤭🙈 A man who loves you will always pay attention to even the most little thing about you. 🥹❤️

Forget man ooh. Focus on your life and your dreams. Except he’s paying your bills.

If a parent spends years paying for their child’s education and sacrifices their own dreams, should that child be expected to financially support the parent indefinitely once they become successful?

Just tell her that you’re not hungry to avoid wasting her food and also avoid you purging.