🌈 queer sx-positive polyamory advice + memes 💁🏻♀️ k!nky sx educator + trainee therapist 🤗 non-monog since 2016
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Leanne Yau retweeted
“go to hell” is basic. “i hope you get into bioware rpgs super late, EA gets sold to saudi arabia less than a year later, and then bioware is shut down completely and mass effect 5 is canceled" is smart. it’s possible. it’s terrifying. it's happened to me.
Dating has gotten SO BAD that even polyamorous people aren’t dating anymore.
I have multiple polyamorous friends who have independently decided to be celibate, choose singlehood, or just be with 1 partner for a while, cuz the dating apps are so bad and everyone is traumatised.
Just to be clear, you do not have to be actively dating or currently have multiple partners to identify as polyamorous. But there is a growing trend of people giving up on dating, including polyamorous people.
Leanne Yau retweeted
One time I went to a BDSM party and there was no chill-out room and I was having a panic attack. I went to the bathrooms but they were all occupied cause people were fucking in them. A dungeon monitor saw me crying and said "there's a quiet corner over there with people fisting"
My favourite kind of polyamorous woman is a divorced woman exploring polyamory for the first time after years of monogamous marriage because the energy is truly unmatched. IYKYK.
Leanne Yau retweeted
Re: rape discourse, if you’re a woman and men are hounding you with questions like this you need to understand they aren’t asking to get an answer. It’s a humiliation ritual to degrade you for speaking about rape culture and wear you down to make you stay silent & “in your place”
Leanne Yau retweeted
Northern Ireland has passed an asexual-inclusive conversion therapy ban! It states that "a reference to a victim’s sexual orientation includes the victim having no sexual orientation towards other persons." Asexual inclusion isn't difficult but it makes a huge difference. 💜🖤
Leanne Yau retweeted
It took me several months to realize my ex had raped me. It was a painful and slow process of remembering, recontextualizing, and talking it out in therapy. It took even longer to say the word “rape” publicly, and I still often don’t. It is NORMAL for survivors to need time.
Leanne Yau retweeted
No one:
Boneless bis: can I get a label that means the exact same thing as bisexual but separates me from them because I'm not one of those *insert whatever bisexuals are supposedly doing wrong* bisexuals 🥹
You just don't want them to join you when they're insulting us😭
Leanne Yau retweeted
Have you considered that this constant "bisexual woman = male centered, fake queer, bound to settle down for a man" discourse is part of the reason why strongly sapphic-leaning multisexual women who care about validation cling to the lesbian label instead of identifying as bi?
Leanne Yau retweeted
let's walk through how "reversing consent" happens & what it is.
example: a woman agrees ahead of time to fingering and oral. no other sex acts are discussed.
during the act, the man decides to suddenly initiate PIV. she is too shocked to do anything. did they talk about this?
My main takeaway from Cornell is that a lot of people don’t understand you can do things that people consider “slutty” and still deserve to have your boundaries respected.
Victims do not owe you sexual purity to be taken seriously.
This should not be difficult to understand.
