goddess ruby jane 🖤✨

Dear People Engaging In Findom, Findom is kink. Findom is a dynamic that that you enter into with consent, negotiations, and vetting. Findom is NOT an easy money grab. Findom is NOT a quick way to get off. Findom is NOT something you jump into with someone you don't know the bare minimum of. Do not skip the important steps. Yes, they may be annoying and boring. Dom/mes, do you really want to be the Dom/me who played with someone underage because you didn't age verify them? Subs, do you want to enter into play with a Dom/me you didn't negotiate with and now they are demanding more from you than you can handle? There is a reason for all of the boring stuff. It ensures that everyone knows what they are getting into and who they are getting into it with. So no one ends up drowning in debt they can't handle, trauma they can't ignore, or jail time for playing with a minor. Do the boring shit! Save yourself the trouble. Sincerely, A Very Tired Kinkster