J. Cole EXPLAINS why MEN should have someone they can vent to: “As men, we don’t have a lot of places we can go to just vent.. When Mark Pitts Calls, I just know how to ask the right questions to really get to the bottom of how he’s feeling.” Cole Adds, “most men don’t want to tell it and most of the world don’t want to hear it… But listening is a Service. Listening is an act of love. Asking the right questions is an act of care.”