robert bornstein (@robbornstein) header
robert bornstein (@robbornstein) profile picture

Horticultural Therapist, blogger, Ebay store, https://teapawt.net/t.co/gENY7UZFKI blogger http://t.co/Bp5GYhx0

Florida USA
Joined May 2009
Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)Photo by robert bornstein (@robbornstein)
Halloween costume of the year, no competition! 馃弳
102
710
29
14,294
2,251,930
robert bornstein retweeted
For almost a year, I left a hot coffee and a blueberry muffin on the same man's desk every single morning. He was married, and everybody in the office knew it. His wife's photo sat right beside his monitor. Still, I kept doing it. At first, my coworkers teased me. A group of Gen Z interns would giggle when I walked in holding two cups. "Girl, just admit you like him." Even my husband joked about it at dinner. "How's your boyfriend at work?" I laughed it off every time. I understood why they thought that. Why would a married woman spend her own money on a coffee for another woman's husband every day? I never explained myself. Then one Thursday, his wife walked into our office without warning. She looked at me, then at the coffee on her husband's desk. She did not say a word. She walked straight over and said quietly, "Can I talk to you outside?" My stomach dropped. In the parking lot, she pulled out her phone and showed me a photo. It was her husband asleep in a hospital chair, still wearing his work shirt, holding her hand. She told me she had been sick for almost two years. He drove ninety minutes each way to see her after work, and most nights he slept in that chair. For months, he had stopped eating. He said he wasn't hungry. But there was one thing he never skipped. "The coffee," she said. "He told me a woman at his office brings it every morning, and it's the only thing that makes him feel like a person." My eyes stung. I had never planned any of it. On his first week at the company, I found him asleep in his car at 6 AM, gray in the face. I handed him a coffee through the window and said nothing. The next day, I did it again. Then it became a habit. His wife wiped her eyes. "I used to wonder why you were so kind to him," she said. "Now I know you were giving him something I couldn't give him at the time." Then she said something that shocked me even more. "Every Friday for a year, there was an envelope in your desk drawer with $25 inside. Did you ever wonder who left it?" I stared at her. I had always assumed it was my husband. "I started it after he told me about you," she whispered. "I didn't want you to lose money being good to us." I started crying so hard I had to lean against the car. She hugged me tightly. Back inside, the interns went quiet as we walked past. I looked at the man everyone had been teasing me about. They thought I was trying to take someone's husband. I was simply making sure a man who had stopped caring for himself didn't go hungry. That night, I told my husband everything. He put down his fork, stood up, and pulled me into a long hug. "I'm sorry I joked," he said. "You didn't know." "No," he said. "But now I do." Three months later, his wife was strong enough to come to the office for a visit. She brought a box of muffins and set one on my desk. On the napkin, she had written, "Your turn to be fed." Sometimes kindness looks suspicious when people do not know the story behind it. And sometimes the smallest thing you do is the only thing someone else can hold onto.
44
486
17
4,736
145,159
Incredible t shirts sale! heck out Menscave7 ebay.us/m/6sjXM6 #eBay via @eBay
11