Jay Jay ADEULE

My babe bought her 17 Pro Max from me and she paid me my N2m complete and in full before I released the phone for her. If she wants to subscribe her MiFi, she goes through me coz its mine and I only gave it to her after I installed Fibre X but every time I subscribe, I ensure she pays me back in full. She could send me N20k for the MiFi subscription, we go out that same evening and I buy her a plate of Food for N30k. I do other things for her but what i do not and will never enable is that spirit of entitlement. I overlook one month MiFi subscription of N20k and before you know it, I am doing it every month and the month I don't do it, i get a negative attitude or reaction. With women, ALWAYS try as much as possible not to ever start what you cannot finish or sustain. You can overlook it with "its just a plate of food every day" or "its just N20k subcription, na less" but all you are doing is feeding a monster that will one day outgrow you and inevitably bite you. With women, the entitlement is never limited to the one month subscription or the daily meals, it cuts across board and bleeds into everything else. That is why your default response to 90% of their requests should be outright NO!. Eliminate and suffocate that spirit of entitlement before it ever gets the chance to grow and you don't start it from marriage, you start it right from the talking stage. This guy is very foolish and would have regretted the relationship if it ever led to that because now you have a girl who is heavily dependent on your food and probably only interested in being with you because of the food. He should be grateful to that girl for doing him a huge favour. The fact he did not even get any consideration after all the food shows he never really stood any chance in the first place. Hopefully he has learnt or maybe he is a bearded, light skin man.