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anways quiting this app was the beginning of greater self-love praxis and repairing my relationship with being seen.
being visible online =\= being seen
what i truly desired was to be seen and accepted
Driving. Such a concept fr. Looking forward to a much more calm and regulated Cynthia, cuz rushing everywhere <<<
Haven’t eaten most day. Too weak. Craving shawarma. Spot closes in 12mins. Was able to jump up, head there, place & get my order before closing. Ease of mental load
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Hip thrust supremacy over here 😆
A movement that sculpts the lower body, makes your glutes bigger, reduces lower back pains & all round lower body strength + better posture 🤺💡
#CHOClientsCam
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I have a very strong sense of self and that’s what I love most about me. I know exactly what’s for me and what’s not. And I cannot be swayed. God bless
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Once you let go of the guilt from airing people, your life would be so much brighter, you go just dey air dey go.
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People thought you were hiding when really you were just healing. Thats a process they’re unfamiliar with so they take your silence and retreat as defeat not realizing that is what made you so bulletproof. These ppl fear solitude and you thrive in it. You are comfortable with yourself and that’s why you’re so comfortable everywhere else.
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My greatest adult disappointment was discovering that bad people get away with everything.
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Sometimes there are people that should never see you at your lowest.
No matter what just don’t let them see or know.
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You are not obligated to give grace to ppl who purposely disrupted your world. Some ppl went out of their way to ruin your relationships, fuck up your stability, tried to make you homeless, made sure you had nobody to call for help, lied on you to everybody who would listen and tried to line you up and ONLY want to be a part of your life again bc you did not die. The things they intended for you- you were NEVER supposed to recover from and not only did you recover, you rebirthed yourself better than before and only want a way back in to control the trajectory of your NEW reality. Pay these ppl dust. Certain things you will NEVER forget, and certain ppl will NEVER be able to connect with you ever again.
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Good-hearted people make honest mistakes and bad decisions too. But they don’t navigate relationships while planting bombs of malice, deceit, and disloyalty. There’s a difference between an honest mistake and an act of malice.
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one of the easiest ways to misunderstand a person is to assume they experience the world the way you do. people can witness the same behavior, hear the same words, and attach completely different meanings to them.
Small tears today cuz a service provider jokingly sent me pics inviting me to come eat while trying to book a routine to spark joy (yeah I’m pleasant like that).
Made me realise I’d been in defense/isolation mode for so long, can’t remember when last I was asked for home meal.


















