Here’s my takeaway from the incident that occurred at Pastor B’s church - This is literally the leeching mentality I believe exists among many Nigerian ladies with only a few exceptions. They might not come out publicly like these ones shouting “men dey” but they harbour that same mentality of using men - I love the man of God a lot, but if this is what his church harbours then he has either not done his job well, needs to do more work, or this generation is probably doomed and difficult to amend “Men dey” Which yeye men dey? The definition of an intentional man to an average Nigerian lady is a brain-rotten, mentally deteriorated man who is unable to think for himself, a man who is sheepish and demands no accountability from them I solely blame the men who think they have money and use it to sponsor these ingrates, making the average hardworking man look like a fool for being responsible, working hard and expecting the same level of commitment and accountability from a woman I hereby identify as a narcissist, nonchalant, and an unintentional man, because that’s what they will call you if you don’t succumb to their gimmicks