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2016-2020. An online magazine and podcast discussing masculinities and challenging ideas of what it means to be a man.

Australian Capital Territory
Joined June 2016
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'What a turn to conversation and confession as solutions to men’s mental health overlooks is that men’s unhappiness is depoliticised when it is individualised.' Ashley Thomson (@thatthomson) on talk as the trickle-down economics of mental health. overland.org.au/2019/12/talk…
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"When we look to dictators as the embodiment of authoritarianism, we may miss the authoritarian tendencies of our own democratically-elected politicians and the ensuing degradation, however incremental, of our democratic systems." Great piece, this
Macho strongmen, daggy dads—what's the difference, asks Ruth McHugh-Dillon, when the system remains the same? This new essay penetrates the cult of personality, looking through to patriarchy, power—and meaningful resistance. homeronline.com/machismo-mis……/
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In #TheDrawingRoom: @PatsKarvelas is joined by artist @SamLeightonDore and @thisisHomer editor @ThatThomson for a conversation about masculinity and when it's "socially acceptable" for men to cry in public. #RNDrive ab.co/2MFvc7f
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Having just wrapped up a chat w @HeadsUpGuys there is no doubt that loneliness is the epidemic for the men of today. Here's a great piece from @thisishomer reflecting on how difficult it can seem to connect. 'The hovering thumb: On mates I don’t call' homeronline.com/mateship-mas…
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> @thisishomer also ran a raw and honest analysis of my work on perpetrators. From the courageous @alexosullivan84: "I fear that if I think of my abusive ex-partner, & men like him, as anything less than a monster, I will somehow fall victim again." bit.ly/33N4fVW
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This is a fascinating piece from @HarryAndrewM about the socio-historical link between masculinity and alcohol in the First World War, published in @thisishomer. Definitely worth a read this fine Saturday morning!
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A little thing I wrote.
"I’ve never seen a fight break out, or even any mocking or shaming occur. Instead there’s a kind of hushed pride, the boys pulling off amazing tricks with barely a shy smile." New on Homer, Alexandra O'Sullivan on the masculine energy of the skate park. homeronline.com/skate-park-a…
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I have a challenge. Off the top of your head, name mainstream movies in which men show vulnerability and find open emotional support from other men, that isn't a war or sport movie. All I can come up with is Dead Poets Society. RT's appreciated.
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Wrote about something I've been grappling with for a while. Grateful to @thisishomer for giving me this space, and for the care they showed my work. I'd love to hear what you think - thoughts and critiques are very welcome
"I’m no longer fat, but I’m not exactly fit, either. I am the undecided vowel between the two extremities." New on Homer: Prem Sylvester explores masculinity, weight loss, and the spaces inbetween fat and thin. homeronline.com/living-in-a-…
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"We’re doing really bad things all the time – whether they’re overt sexual assaults to micro-aggressions." @thisishomer speaks with actor/co-creator @adlazarus about his play Daughter at #sydfest 2019. Read here: sydfe.st/2SAVpEr Tix here: sydfe.st/2rkP1W4
Please RT if you are a man who has never been in a bar fight.
I don’t know one guy, including myself, who wasn’t in a bar fight. Not a single one.
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I think about this story all the time, but I don't think I've ever spoken about it on here. So here's a thread about my closest, saddest and most life-changing brush with Australian fame.
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“... a healthier, more compassionate masculinity is on the rise — but please, if we are to win this battle, we must condemn the culture while showing compassion for the men and women trapped in it, while working hard to create cultural change.”
Why Calling It “Toxic Masculinity” Isn’t Helping (Medium has made this article featured content and added it as part of their Man, Interrupted series.) @thinkplay @Mensmovementcom @mankindproject @schnei95 @dad2summit @EstherPerel @Movember medium.com/s/man-interrupted…
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I’ve got a sister about Eurydice’s age. She’s nailed it. #EurydiceDixon
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Please read. I've wanted to say this for a long time, and now seemed as good a time as any.
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Look out for Menswear Revolution: The Transformation of Contemporary Men's Fashion next May - until then, there's always this interview! teapawt.net/thisishomer/status/913…
New podcast! Talking men's fashion and masculinity with Jay McCauley Bowstead. homeronline.com/the-homer-ha… #homerhalfhour #podcast
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This is my dad Jimmy. He voted for marriage equality. Then he went to post his form and rode a pony. Be like Jimmy. #VoteYes #AusPol
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Pushing gender roles--to a point. In stock photos, men with kids are bearded&muscled to remind of their masculinity nytimes.com/2017/09/07/upsho…
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"In a racist society it is not enough to be non-racist. We must be anti-racist." - Angela Davis
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Idk this man but I want him to know that I love and appreciate him
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