kalau belum punya emotional intelligence buat ngerti perasaan orang lain, at least punya basic common sense. coba pakai logika sesimpel ini “kalau gw diperlakukan kayak gini, bakal sakit hati nggak, ya?” if you know it hurts, then why tf would you do it to someone else? jangan berlindung di balik alasan “gw emang gini orangnya”.