autistic trans girl refugee. please do not perceive me 🖤🩶🤍💜 straight leaning demisexual I guess

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Joined July 2021
its also a desire fucking half of u have u just get away with it bc u want another woman to fill the role
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there is no meaningful difference between wanting to be a tradwife and wanting to be a puppygirl tbh
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I'm sure you don't! However most of us have experienced sexual harassment , conversion rhetoric, etc from other trans women... I personally experienced SA by the hands of another trans woman. this isn't out of nowhere and when you attack our preferences it's a familiar dynamic.
the way these straight women genuinely think i would want to fuck them.. oh my lord they do not understand sexual boundaries at all. the identification with the male mode of production is through the roof.
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many of us have also experienced the dynamic where when we try to make community with other trans women, it quickly becomes clear that if we aren't available to other trans women sexually, we won't get close to any lasting community unless we do t4t.
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ultimately, hatred of straight trans women comes from insecurity. society tells you that you're less of a woman for being a trans lesbian, you internalize that, and then project that onto straight trans women. this is why people fling accusations of blanchardism onto us,
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even if we never once expressed such beliefs. that's why old medical gatekeeping standards are constantly brought up... a lot of transbians just assume we already look down on them and attack us based on that baseless assumption..born from their own self hate
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it's pretty sad.. I love my trans lesbian friends and don't wish any harm on them.. i'm not their oppressor.. why can't we just get along.
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local lgbt center is doing a screening of transmisogyny the musical for Halloween, 🤦‍♀️
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i have genuine dysphoria about not living in america
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thought I looked cute here idk
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i was gonna go on a date with a cute guy but he has cancelled "because of work" and then proceeded to ghost me. he did turn out to be an ex-femboy who asked if I wanted his old clothes so he was probably a repper so perhaps i dodged a bullet but he seemed nice ..
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If I killed myself and left a suicide note post noone will even have noticed
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This actually gets trans women killed
Replying to @__rainedrop
It’s genuinely insane that a few people are saying this is transphobic. This is what I was told by my cardiologist. CIS WOMEN and AFAB individuals experience heart attacks differently than men and there is a laundry list of reasons for that.
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Why does everyone act like they really like me and want to meet one day and then I'm completely ghosted the next
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what's the point of activism if OF trans women will just say insane optics nukes for views.
I hope this cleared things up for you all on why me and many other trans women require sanitary products! 💗
Readers added context they thought people might want to know
Trans women lack a uterus so do not menstruate or bleed cyclically. Sources report some on HRT experience PMS-like symptoms without bleeding (phantom periods). Sanitary products manage blood flow or post-op discharge, not these symptoms. medicalnewstoday.com/articles/can-t… en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstruat…
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as someone who realized I'm trans in childhood so I didn't have much of a concept of sexuality before, I really don't understand why some trans women think having a "gay boy phase" is a flex, surely it inherently implies late realization.
Replying to @mimizima_
I forget some (many) trans girls were straight boys before.
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I even remember getting called a slur for gay by older kids but like, I didn't know what that meant... I liked toys
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i feel really unlovable, i really just wanted to be a wife and mother but no one wants that with me
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i was trying to put myself out there but it just ends up with experiences that feel like SA and probably are.
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I really need to stop putting vulnerable things on this app..
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