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Joined March 2020
I really believe deadbeatism is a symptom of the contempt men have for women. It’s never an accident, has always been in their plans for you. The intention? To ensure your life gets layers of difficulty, strife, disappointment & hurt added to it
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Saw this on TT a few hours ago. Had to share it because this is ever so accurate..
This barely having any views is bothering me because it’s a scenario more women need to be aware of. It reminds me of that quote that’s like, “If you treat a man well, he won’t think you’re amazing. He’ll think he is.”
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Ladies using e-hailing services in SA: I need us to always be ready to cancel a trip no matter how late or in a rush we are. If a driver is being difficult or inappropriate even before the ride starts, cancel. If the car reg is not the same on app, cancel. If they ask +
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If they ask you to end the trip so that you can pay them cash, please refuse. I know our instinct might be to empathise with whatever reason they give, but pls understand that you’re putting yourself at risk by doing that. Don’t negotiate anything when it comes to your safety 🙏🏾
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Sometimes even parenthood is pursued from a place of outsourcing a sense of accomplishment… another societal expectation & proof of adulthood & worthiness of respect… because in most African communities if you are unmarried or don’t have kids, there’s tables you cant sit on
I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
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When you are unmarried & childless there is an undeniable pressure to show off other accomplishments. Like your career has to be exceptional in order to justify “choosing it over” a relationship
I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
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Anathi Maguga, an innocent, hardworking businesswoman from Gqeberha who specialised in baking cakes, has reportedly been found dead in a forest after she went missing on Thursday evening. According to reports, Anathi was with her cousin when she received a phone call at around 6 PM. She reportedly left shortly afterwards and was not seen again. Police later found her vehicle in NU5, Motherwell.
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And we’re surprised that some doctors want endometriosis reclassified as cancer because of how it behaves. But sure, let’s keep studying the most attractive female body traits instead of addressing this severely understudied illness. I’ll just keep sitting here in pain, I guess.
ENDOMETRIOSIS HAS NOW BEEN FOUND IN THE LUNGS, BRAIN, HEART AND OTHER ORGANS IN THE FEMALE BODY-ENDO IS FAR MORE THAN JUST A "BAD PERIOD" DISEASE; IT IS COMPLEX, SYSTEMIC WARFARE WAGED AGAINST THE ENTIRE BODY.
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“So much” like what?
I think it’s important to have a few male friends as a woman. You learn so much lol.
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Has The Office always been on Netflix? I’m so happy about this discovery!
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the reason men can open jars easier is becos they don't moisturize.
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Also alikho ikhaya elizovuka ngoNovember bafazi. Buy that phone, that wig or that sneaker😭
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If corruption and drug trafficking was suddenly taken seriously in this country, we would see the Cape Town property market collapse so quick
Seems local and international crooks find Cape Town a great place to take refuge and launder money
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Spent the afternoon visiting my niece in hospital. I pray she heals ❤️🙏🏾
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South Africa's water systems and detection mechanisms are quite robust. This is why the sabotage claims were pure BS. The Bronkhorstspruit matter is good old fashion incompetence.
Sunday Times reports that Tshwane municipality ignored repeated warnings about the Bronkohorspruit treatment plant while continuing to supply residents with contaminated water. Mayor Moya is said to have received at least 3 reports on water quality months leading up to the crisis
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Replying to @MaduduzoR
We just love shifting the blame when it comes to men. Nobody can keep a man from being a parent except the man himself. Men are choosing to abandon their children, knowing full well that their wives will be blamed for the choices they make.
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I know sis either has a linguistic degree or did some phonology and phonetics classes. This is exactly how you should teach kids words.
As an adult, I want to attend this school so badly.
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My stance on side chicks is personal because I have been one. It happened because my self esteem and sense of self wasn’t even on the floor. It simply didn’t exist. In the moment, you will absolutely have multiple explanations and excuses to excuse yourself for taking part +
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My stance of not understanding why you would bring a child into that dynamic comes from remembering how that dynamic is. It seriously makes no sense bcoz you already live off crumbs 🫠
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I was dealing with a man who was available 24/7 for the most part but still…. It’s still crumbs. You feel it deep down. Making a baby makes NO sense 😭
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