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this is why standing on a decision and being abused by ur family is such a socially isolating experience.. there’s so many other people that think like this. strangers at that. calling ur character into question because you distanced yourself from some people they don’t know.
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as someone that’s worked with kids and now parents a majority of my professional life..parents aren’t really shining examples of maturity because if that were true the world would likely be a much better place.
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once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
I think men really have a hard time believing that I actually just want sex because the type of sex I like involves some passion. lol.
But it’s like … babes the passion is cause you’re a human being I like having this experience with, I’m not gonna half ass it.
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agency means having the capacity to act on your own choices, not just waiting for someone else to make theirs. you can’t keep describing yourself as decisive while making your dating life entirely dependent on a man’s initiative. take charge of what you want.
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I also don’t think I’ll ever be as social and extroverted as I once was, even the way I interact on here and I know some of you have felt it cuz I used to be way more social but life’s wear and tear and loss have changed me and taken tolls.
So what I’ve accepted about myself is that I’m at my best when I’m inclement and working towards something, usually several things at the at same time
I don’t do well with leisure. Especially the passive kind
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I love sex. I love order more than I love sex.
I love having an exclusive body & stricter requirements than "good vibes". I don't love feeling conquered, or being used & won't be delusional or ignore uncomfy truths to indulge in casual sex comfortably.
Please understand that it does get to a point where all that talking might not do a damn thing so …
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I have learned that you will keep getting depressed about old trauma until you learn to love the person trauma made, even though that person was chaotic and destructive. You have to have compassion for your confused, messy self and realize they tried their best.
























