tomAto น้องมะฮับ 🍅🧛‍♂️

hmm guys, if gawin is comfortable with it, then i don’t see why we need to make it an issue deh. you ga harus kok ikutan panggil dia mommy kalo emang you ga sreg, tapi you jangan paksa orang lain untuk ga panggil dia mommy juga (karna gawinnya sendiri pun ngebolehin), as simple as that. i mean, panggilan mommy itu cute loh, and being a mommy is a beautiful thing too. what matters most here is gawin’s own response to it. kalo dianya aja senyum sumringah, giggling, play along, and nge-acc untuk dipanggil mommy, kenapa you you pada yg bukan gawin yg ngerasa uncomfortable? hehe he’s my son, i love him so much, and for me, calling him mommy doesn’t automatically invalidate his masculinity or identity as a man. we should just let him decide what he’s comfortable being called, rather than setting boundaries on his behalf. nanti kalo one day dia minta you you pada stop calling him mommy, baru deh tuh you boleh bgt tegur orang-orang yg masih bandel manggil dia mommy. bcs at the end of the day, still, his comfort comes first. udh lah daripada ribut, mending tebak dey lebih sering joss atau guinzly yg panggil gawin mommy? HEHEHE 😗