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Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
Leaving a narcissistic wife is hard.
But it’s not as hard as spending another year being blamed, criticized, gaslit, and made to feel like you’re never enough.
Sometimes the harder decision is the one that finally gives you your life back.
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT 👍🏽
He was in court just YESTERDAY trying to block the release of the other six million pages.
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
What men call “romance” vs what women actually want as romance
Man’s version:
• Buying flowers once a year
• Planning a fancy dinner on her birthday
• Saying “I love you” after sex
• Surprising her with jewelry she never asked for
Woman’s version:
• Texting her something soft in the middle of the day
• Remembering the tiny thing she mentioned three weeks ago
• Sitting with her in silence without reaching for your phone
• Looking at her like she’s still the most interesting person in the room
Romance isn’t a performance. It’s proof you still notice her when no one’s watching.
~ @Ayesha_diaries1
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
Oh Brian.
That’s not what we use social media for when we are loved well. 💁🏻♀️
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
Rules to follow during arguments in your marriage:
1. Never shout
2. Never bring up the past just to win
3. Never insult each other’s character
4. Never argue in front of the children
5. Never threaten divorce during a fight
6. Never walk away without saying when you will continue the talk
7. Never involve third parties while the issue is still fresh
8. Listen fully before you reply
9. Attack the problem, not the person
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
Sadly, some men in our generation will never marry.
Its not because they can't find a woman, they simply made up their minds that marriage isn't worth the risk.
They've watched friends lose money, peace, freedom and sometimes even their relationship with their children after divorce.
So they decided:
"Never again."
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
Reasons why most men cheat on their wives:
1. They never feel appreciated
2. Their wives refuse to give them s3x
3. They feel constantly disrespected at home
4.The house is full of complaints and no peace
5.They feel more like a provider than a desired husband
6.Their wife stopped taking care of herself and got fat
7.They feel emotionally lonely even while married
8.They have lost attraction but stay for the children
Cheating is still wrong but some of women give men the reasons to cheat.
Dealga OCallaghan retweeted
I had an avoidant wife on the show to give my guys the other side of the story, and this part hit.
She said the marriage was fine in the honeymoon years because she still had a job, still had her own life. Then the kids came, she became a stay-at-home mom, and, her words, it was the death of her independence. From the outside she was living the American dream. He made good money, she got to stay home, she was supposed to be happy. Inside, she said her soul was dying and she didn't even have the language for it yet. That's the woman a lot of you are married to. Not cold. Disappearing.