The anxiety that comes with being a parent to a teenager 😪😪 the constant worry about their future, career prospects, life outside your control and protection etc tjooo kuningi!
A colleague warned me not to drink things i leave unattended on my desk. I thought she is being paranoid but after this eeeeh!
A Berkeley chemical engineer who suffered years of unexplained illness discovered through a spy camera from Amazon that her coworker, David Xu, was poisoning her food and water with cadmium, a toxic heavy metal for nearly 18 months between 2017 and 2019. The victim experienced significant health problems and at times required emergency care at a hospital. Newly released video shows Xu appearing to put a substance in her water bottle in 2019.
Xu was arrested that year and charged with attempted murder and two counts of poisoning, offenses that could have sent him to prison for life. But under a plea deal, the attempted murder charge and one poisoning count were dropped. Xu pleaded no contest to one felony poisoning charge and received two years of probation, with credit for one day served. He completed probation in March and is now seeking to have his felony conviction dismissed.
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I am soo conflicted about the Christa Pike case....are we about to experience 200yrs of history repeat itself?
Gov. Bill Lee says he will not grant clemency to Christa Pike, leaving her scheduled Wednesday execution in place. Pike would be the first woman executed in Tennessee in more than 200 years. Read more at our link in bio
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Re-watching 2 broke girls and they are soo relatable now😂😂 the more they try to save for the cupcake business the less the money gets🤣
I named my car snowy. Then I forgot I put that as car nickname on tracker forms years back. Last month tracker sent an sms that the tracker on snowy is malfunctioning. For a minute I was confused how they know🤣🤣🤣🤣was cute that they called her by name
Normalise naming your car😉 because she deserves an identity. Imagine something that takes you from point A-B not to be on a first name basis. Name that car please🚘🚘
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💔💔 the craziest thing is that you can't fully protect yourself from this as you don't know who the perpetrator/s are. They could be your neighbors etc. Was at the post office today thinking Nene went in and never made it out. May the 5 ladies rest in peace 😪
Don't divorce, don't give your marriage a 2nd chance, don't earn more than him, don't be dependent on him, don't talk back, don't give him too much power, don't dress provocatively..... no formula to this. Anyday you can be part of the statistics. We just pray for grace.
Don't jog alone.
Don't walk alone.
Don't go to the post office alone.
Don't go to school alone.
Don't go on a date alone.
Don't walk home alone.
Don't go to a restaurant alone.
Don't live alone.
Don't go hiking alone.
Don't travel alone.
What else did I miss? 🙂
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It is Black tax.
This will be long but I feel compelled to share findings from my research on the intergenerational impacts of mass violence like genocide, slavery, apartheid, colonialism- etc.
Saying Black tax doesn't mean the
people you are helping are bad,
undeserving, or a burden,
It simply means Black people have a
financial responsibility that most white people generally do not have,
Because of how wealth was structured
by apartheid, colonialism and slavery.
As Black people,
Many of our parents and families are
yet to recover financially from these
violent and unequal structures,
So when a relatively financially stable
Black person supports parents, siblings, cousins or extended family,
That support is sometimes filling a
wealth gap created by historical
dispossession,
Rather than simply being an individual choice.
White people can absolutely support
their families too,
The difference is that,
Historically,
White families were generally better
positioned to accumulate, retain and
pass on wealth,
Meaning the financial burden does not
necessarily operate in the same
structural way.
So us looking after our extended families
Is a form of taxation,
In the sense that we cannot simply
opt out of the responsibility,
Because often,
There is little accumulated family wealth or financial safety nets
to fall back on.
Therefore,
Calling it a "tax",
Is about the usually COMPULSORY nature,
And structural origin of the obligation,
Not about saying the people receiving
the support are undeserving,
Or those giving it are not happy to do so.
It is a responsibility created by racialised wealth inequality.
It is a form of taxation that is meant to improve our lives as Black people,
Because it allows us to support our families and improve the lives of those around us,
But unfortunately,
It also sets back those paying the tax,
Because instead of using all of what we earn to further ourselves,
We have to spread the little we have thinly across many people.
A Black person who earns enough to buy a mansion,
Move to a better neighbourhood,
Invest and accumulate generational wealth,
May instead have to use part of that income to support their extended family.
Their peers earning the same amount,
But without the burden/responsibility of Black tax,
May be able to use that same income to further themselves,
And accumulate wealth at a much faster rate.
And yes,
It can be gratifying to look after your family,
You may do it voluntarily,
You may do it happily,
But that does not change the fact that you are still paying the tax.
And because you are paying that tax,
You generally have less money to invest in yourself,
Less money to accumulate wealth,
And less money to move yourself and your children into a better economic position.
So while Black tax can improve the lives of Black families,
It can also perpetuate the very inequality that made the tax necessary in the first place.
Because instead of one person using their income to move themselves out of poverty,
They may have to spread that income across several people,
Keeping everyone afloat, yes,
But in doing so,
Being kept further behind,
By responsibilities they cannot simply opt out of,
While those who inherited the economic benefits of historical crimes against Black peoples,
Continue to accumulate wealth.
Inde lendlela.😞























