Relationship coach and author of “This is How Your Marriage Ends” -- available now! https://teapawt.net/t.co/AgnWN1Zx7K
Cleveland, Ohio
Joined July 2013
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"Every couple has their own unique version of The Same Fight. For us, it was dishes by the sink." In an excerpt from my new book, I argue that little things that fuel The Same Fight are what become major problems in marriage and long-term partnerships: theatlantic.com/family/archi…
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4 books to strengthen your relationships 👫🤝
@bobgoff @MBTTTR @MitchAlbom
#tbr #bookrecommendations #relationships #books
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He wrote a very good (imo) book too however I think long term partnership at the end of the should be more than a lot of small and relatively insignificant things…
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💔This week: Matthew Fray of @MBTTTR on how marriages can slowly unravel, and the skills you need to rescue things early in the piece.
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#therapistsconnect
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"Some people believe that the purpose of business is to enable culture, to enable humanity. And some people believe that the purpose of humanity and culture is to enable business."
I could listen to Seth Godin talk all day tim.blog/2023/05/17/seth-god…
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When you're triggered over the dirty dishes in the sink, it's not really about the dishes.
It's about:
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The pragmatic presents to buy your other half this Valentine’s Day…
Forget the red roses and boxes of chocolate – get them a meaningful (and helpful!) gift this February, with #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds, #ConversationsFromALongMarriage and #FiveArgumentsAllCouplesNeedToHave 👍
ALT A photo of three books on a wooden background. The books are This is How Your Marriage Ends by Matthew Fray, Conversations from a Long Marriage by Jan Etherington and Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have by Joanna Harrison.
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How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
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Listening to this by @MBTTTR. I’m in chapter 2, listening to the section about “the invalidation triple threat” and it is pure gold. Absolute dead on about the ways to invalidate your spouse (or kid or friend or…) and I feel very stabby now.
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Stumbled across @MBTTTR today. This snippet from one of his blog posts…oh yes. Oh hell to the yes. Also ouch.
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Headed home to Buffalo today with a lot of love on my heart. 🫶🏾
Watching the world come together around me on Sunday was truly an amazing feeling.
The same love you all have shown me is the same love that I plan to put back into the world n more.
Bigger than football! 🫶🏾 – at Buffalo, NY
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Make a new year's resolution that counts: to improve your relationship.
@MBTTTR's acclaimed #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds is out today in paperback.
Find out more: bit.ly/TIHYMEpb
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‘People fail to recognise how the so-called ‘little things’ add up over time’
In case you missed it – here’s our article on why so many long-term relationships fail and if there’s anything we can do to save them. Featuring advice from @MBTTTR and @JoCoupleTherapy ⬇️
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‘People fail to recognise how the so-called ‘little things’ add up over time’
Why do so many long-term relationships fail? And is there anything we can do to save them before it’s too late? Matthew Fray @MBTTTR and @JoCoupleTherapy share their advice in our NEW article ⬇️
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Make your relationship stronger – listen to this @souvenirpress double whammy on @BBCWomansHour 💪
@Emmabarnett chats to #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds author
@MBTTTR and #FiveArgumentsAllCouplesNeedToHave author @JoCoupleTherapy about their vital books.
bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001fc…
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Today's submissions for the #NonObvious Book Awards include books
from @malekanoms, @dollarsanddata, @MBTTTR, @BenjaminPHardy, and @urvi_bhatnaga. Good luck everyone! cc: @BookBaby, @harrimanhouse, @HarperOneBooks, @hayhouse, and @BKpub.
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Looking for thoughtful relationship advice? Try #TheMeaningfulLife podcast:
❤️Terry Real on 5 traps to avoid
❤️Infidelity - @SailingInfidel1 @stilllearning2b @cmaddenmft
❤️Attachment - @tarablairball
❤️Lessons from failed relationships @MBTTTR
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How and why do marriages end? How can you avoid that disintegration? Here’s one perspective from author Matthew Fray @MBTTTR on my podcast this week!
To listen to the episode on Apple: apple.co/3SVHUiq
To listen to the episode on Spotify: spoti.fi/3AvBek0
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Some marriage must-reads from my list of Ten Books to Enrich Your Summer:
📚@MBTTTR on "This is How Your Marriage Ends"
📚Terry Real's "Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship".
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#SummerReading #CoupleGoals
