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Based Therapist | Marchese Methods retweeted
This is immaculate. 👏
Okay, genuine advice for the non-Stacys. This is not bait. This is real advice. If you want a man, if you want a relationship, and if you want a man who is consistent and sticks around, you actually have to offer what Stacy doesn’t. You have to offer sex. You have to offer sex BEFORE commitment. You have to offer your body. You have to offer blowjobs. You have to offer handjobs. You have to offer all of the things that would make him see how you’re different and make a relationship with you more enticing than a dinner dates thing with Stacy. You may not like this, and I think a lot of the time there’s a lot of resentment, so the non-Stacys don’t want to do it. “Wah, wah. Why should I have to put in all the effort if Stacy doesn’t?” Because you’re not Stacy. Because she gets to do something you don’t. End of story. You don’t like it? Too bad. Grow up. This is life. This is what you have to do if you want to get a partner. There’s literally no way around it.
Women’s use of the term “incel” and other “immasculine” or “you’re not attractive” desperate insults extends well beyond the “only unit of value” meme. It’s:
1. They think you can’t say anything without an emotional antecedent because that’s how they operate. So criticism [bad thing] about women is saying [women bad], which they reason must have some emotional intention. Barnes & Noble low IQ psychology comes in for them to think *you must be mad at women for not meeting your needs (sex), so saying women bad makes you not need sex anymore, which excuses you from being better*. They think YOURE the Id Slave, everything you must say must be cope for not having sex, because that’s what they would do if they didn’t have sex.
2. With sex as the only value continuum, they consider everything to be pursuant to sex. But since they’re the celestial deities who control sex, they get to assign such value. They think this makes them celestial but it actually makes them simpletons, reductive low level animals.
This makes for people to be ranked according to their sexual value. Like high school popularity. This is authority, so if you don’t have sex you must not be smart, therefore what you say will never be rational. If you were rational and smart you’d figure out how to have more sex, because that’s all there is to do in applying intellect.
But since you said something that didn’t make her feel good, you don’t know how to get women to have sex with you. She post-hoc rationalizes that you need to make her feel good for sex, because she needs to feel le ✨sayfe✨, which she conflates with ego safety. Hence, if you make her ego uncomfortable by counter arguing and making her feel stupid, she doesn’t feel ego/emotional safe, “closing her off”. She can now dismiss your argument to protect her ego and save herself the calories of arguing rationally.
Moreover, the only reason to interact with a woman is to get her to have sex with you (notice this is what she thinks not you), so she thinks she can dismiss what you said categorically because it failed to do that.
Every retarded foy dating advice post:
> [OP] Men should like freekarino give women everything emotionally and get nothing in return or expect nothing in return because like, my lizard brain tells me the best and happiest deal is the pleasure of not having to metabolize calories. Men should be boyfriends without us having to be their girlfriends.
> Replies tell her she’s retarded
> Hmph, you’re an incel, which means you have low sexual value, for which I have the celestial divine Feminislam ™ authority to give or take from you, so you’re wrong 😏😤✌️
Based Therapist | Marchese Methods retweeted
Based Therapist done already told you, anon!
Every retarded foy dating advice post:
> [OP] Men should like freekarino give women everything emotionally and get nothing in return or expect nothing in return because like, my lizard brain tells me the best and happiest deal is the pleasure of not having to metabolize calories. Men should be boyfriends without us having to be their girlfriends.
> Replies tell her she’s retarded
> Hmph, you’re an incel, which means you have low sexual value, for which I have the celestial divine Feminislam ™ authority to give or take from you, so you’re wrong 😏😤✌️
Women’s compulsive low IQ bad faith framings warrant imprisonment.
1. Always front loading some loaded itemization or as a quantity. They do this with listing chores, and since it’s a cognitive operation and fake overwhelm to see multiple specific items their brains felt heuristic think “more items = more work”. Similarly, here, she front loads 365 days to make it sound worse than it is and like you have to decide all of those up front. Each day you decide actually, which isn’t hard. Every day they have no problem deciding on Amazon items, but this of course is too hard. If they get so overwhelmed with decisions then maybe they shouldn’t decide anything ever.
2. Arbitrarily inserted constraints. “Erm can’t use the same one once a month”. According to what? You can eat the same rotation of meals every week actually. Supposing you don’t like that, add another 7 for a two week rotation. You can repeat using chicken btw.
3. “Preferences and dieting” all not real. You are in charge, you get to tell everyone shut the fuck up and eat what you make them. But of course, neurotic mammal brain can’t risk upsetting anyone
4. On some level there is a pig moid problem of crying over their food touching and her making regular nuggies instead of Dino nuggies. In my house I just hate cooking so I welcome just about everything my wife makes.
5. An unmentioned part of this neuroticism with dinner is it’s their version of femininity, they want to be competent in this (despite bemoaning it) because it’s what they’re “supposed” to do, such that they feel if they’re caught not doing well you’re going to lose attraction and *take* femininity from her in thinking she’s not feminine. Their version essentially of having to always have something to do with work so you’re not caught not working such that they sperg you’re not providing for their little foidnugget brains. Crazy concept but you can just not marry this guy, unless you’re desperate because you rode the cock carousel in your twenties.
Women are giant fucking crybaby emotionally immature hedonistic Coombrain toddler Insentient Id Slaves
Browsed an old post and saw this instructive instance of Barnes & Noble Psychology.
It’s always a special delight when they immediately go to anything related to the gym or my physique, revealing the insta-seethe and guilt for all the usual suspect I’d Slave reasons.
It was even a more special delight to go “materialism”, which is not only a gay libtard attempt at saying “you don’t freekarino care about other people (meaning themselves btw, they’re insulted you don’t care ABOUT THEM)”, but also a thorough misread, considering everything I do and say is anti-material all the time.
He goes on to say le “narcissism”, which he feels good saying because he thinks that means “mean”, which he thinks I am because my existence hurts his feelings. Which, by the way, is actual narcissism. Thinking your feelings and your feelings ONLY are morality like that
Fall 2027 admissions is going to be overwhelmed with a 500% increase in female applicants at Cornell
Every retarded foy dating advice post:
> [OP] Men should like freekarino give women everything emotionally and get nothing in return or expect nothing in return because like, my lizard brain tells me the best and happiest deal is the pleasure of not having to metabolize calories. Men should be boyfriends without us having to be their girlfriends.
> Replies tell her she’s retarded
> Hmph, you’re an incel, which means you have low sexual value, for which I have the celestial divine Feminislam ™ authority to give or take from you, so you’re wrong 😏😤✌️
What’s even supposed to be the OWN here? You’re happy eating baby food instead of having to cook for an OAFISH MOID PIG? So in other words, left to yourself, you’ll eat baby food for dinner. Self-own.
These “OWNS” are psychotic breaks from reality
Shame I had this in my photos but forgot about it at the time.
Stunning example of No Theory Of Mind, where they project their own propensity to meltdown. MAGA didn’t “realize” they were The Bad Guys because they knew it was a low IQ libtard interpretation of them, therein not actually representative of their beliefs. But libtards think that since images and emojis and feelings are truth to them they are for MAGA and rightoids, such that The Boys writing making them *feel* a heckarino fascism in the imagery that also *feels* like MAGA implies MAGA will *feel* that too.
Amusingly there was a tweet that went viral where some other shitlib said “ERM OK BUT HOW IS HOMELANDER LIKE BLUMPF”, supposedly an OWN (linked below), which directly contradicts other shitlibs saying he is like Blumpf and it’s AWESOME.
“That you think he’s like him tells us a lot 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏”
Paging @MillennialWoes for the pretending not to understand meme
They insist on this cope because it has created dissonance that the “media illiterate chuds” got that it was Trump even without Kripke saying so. So now they have to make like that wasn’t the case, you’re stupid for thinking otherwise, and they bolster this with preempting quips about how “you obviously can’t compare them because Homelander has super powers which aren’t real”
Herein, they feel really good because “that you think they’re the same” implies you tacitly worship Trump and essentially think he really is above us and has superpowers. “Proving” you’re a cultist sycophant and degrading yourself in subservience, “owning” you by thereby concluding you’re immasculine or have no hunter gatherer utility value in independent thought. It “proves” you’re “weak” making them feel “stronger” and “above you” in their perpetual low self-esteem pathology and survivalist ethics system. Namely, making themselves feel powerful by emulation or comparison without subjecting themselves to metabolic discomfort of discipline or challenging themselves. Because lizard brain no likey badsie feelsies, and used them to tell your hunter gatherer brain you’ll die if you keep expending energy.
The grand irony is this is their slavery to feelings and neurotransmitters. Amidst this they insert their low IQ Barnes & Noble Psychology to rationalize the emotional transaction and comparison, initiating felt heuristic evolved logic rather than actual logic. Their obsession with Barnes & Noble Psychology is almost like them telling themselves they’re above you, and naturally it’s always surface level because to actually become psychoanalytically skilled requires that metabolic discomfort and more fretfully self-examination. They are powerless and never take action, hence the forever ego battle psychology to “win” and gain “power”.
It’s also supposed to be an “own” because “the fact” that you consider the two isomorphic “proves” that “even you” “secretly know how heckarino evil Blumpf is”. Thereby proving a “consensus”, another lo IQ mammal brain survival heuristic.
Based Therapist | Marchese Methods retweeted
Women do not understand the difference between a miscarriage and an abortion.
And they think they should still be allowed to vote.
Raised Catholic, I was taught abortion was wrong in all circumstances. I became a single-issue voter.
Years later my first pregnancy ended tragically. At 12 weeks there was no heartbeat.
They scheduled a D&C. I was sobbing so hard during the procedure that they stopped and brought my husband in to calm me before trying again. That’s the same procedure used for abortion.
Since Roe fell, women in many states have been denied or delayed that care while doctors fear prosecution.
Abortion saved my life. It allowed me to go on and have three successful pregnancies.
I would never take life-saving care from a woman and her doctor. But if a woman’s faith precludes her from this, I respect her decision. That’s her choice for herself.
Changing your mind isn’t weakness. It’s strength.
#Catholic #choice #Roe
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A D&C after a baby has already died is not an abortion. Nor is it illegal after overturning of Roe v Wade.
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Based Therapist | Marchese Methods retweeted
Day twenty four of asking Elon @elonmusk to give Nick @NickJFuentes a blue checkmark
This was either an op or some terrafried shitlib who still thinks it’s The Boys finale IRL
🇩🇪 Adolf Hitler’s 'Eagle’s Nest' retreat in Bavaria, Germany, has been set on fire.
German police have arrested a suspect as authorities investigate possible arson.
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This entire cope and seethe is “Muh Pussy”. She’s saying “you’re doing a thing that doesn’t make my ego feel good, and if I’m uncomfortable I’m not turned on, so I won’t have sex with you. So stop it!”
As if that’s how sexual arousal has ever worked.
Moreover, this is the meme of women using their gay little feelings as the barometer for masculinity, which can typically only pick up on one facet of masculinity at a time.
So, since she feels a strong citation of a general cultural image of men pursuing women, that’s the scientific “proof” that that’s what’s masculine. She can vaguely further feel there’s something to masculinity in relentless pursuit of what you want. Hence, she’s shaming and saying you’re Not Being Masculine, which means she doesn’t want to Have Sex.
But in typical foidtard fashion she doesn’t understand the cognitive operation of masculinity entails perpetually appraising a balance between multiple facets. Which isn’t even based on “50/50” balance, but rather what balance gets a man to the life he wants.
So, like a solipsistic fucktard with goldfish feelings, she can’t conceptualize that a fulfilling relationship for men entails us feeling desired for who we are too. That doesn’t mean taking that and running to the cope hills to rationalize not doing anything to make yourself attractive. Rather, it means your woman being attracted to you for your characteristics rather than you pushing her transactional pleasure buttons.
Amusingly, this is the exact complaint women always make. They don’t want you to just want to fuck them, and they get hurt if you fuck them without returning investment — despite playing tough guy and claiming otherwise to cope.
Moreover, in that typical goldfish emotions fashion, she fantasizes about that because it would *make her feel good here and now egotistically and pacify her unresolved Electra Complex and Lizard Brain Conservation Of Calories Instinct*, but then when a guy is all subordinate like that she gets all turned off that he doesn’t see himself as above her. Even if it’s le Chaaaad ™
Okay, genuine advice for the non-Stacys. This is not bait. This is real advice. If you want a man, if you want a relationship, and if you want a man who is consistent and sticks around, you actually have to offer what Stacy doesn’t. You have to offer sex. You have to offer sex BEFORE commitment. You have to offer your body. You have to offer blowjobs. You have to offer handjobs. You have to offer all of the things that would make him see how you’re different and make a relationship with you more enticing than a dinner dates thing with Stacy. You may not like this, and I think a lot of the time there’s a lot of resentment, so the non-Stacys don’t want to do it. “Wah, wah. Why should I have to put in all the effort if Stacy doesn’t?” Because you’re not Stacy. Because she gets to do something you don’t. End of story. You don’t like it? Too bad. Grow up. This is life. This is what you have to do if you want to get a partner. There’s literally no way around it.
Based Therapist | Marchese Methods retweeted
These “be a man and just adapt” types always talk a lot without actually saying anything. They have no message, their entire reason for uttering words is to make you think they’re better than you.
The millennial and genZ daughters of girldad boomers are a lost cause. You can't teach an old dog new tricks. A broken 30 year old is broken for life.
The burden of fixing the future rests on the shoulders of young men. You will be raising the next generation. You can make the world a better place, or you can suck your thumb and do nothing, but tomorrow will arrive either way, and the future belongs to those who show up.
The sooner you realize that it doesn't matter if the current state of things is the fault of the previous generations. You have no alternative to taking agency and leading.
Similarly a soyllennial 40+ f_(a)_qqot did the cringellennial game of LARPING as a boomer to feel ✨Mateuwre✨ and gain the approval of the caricature of his parents in his head by waving his hand in front of the sun so I would look up from my phone.
Not only was he too far away for this to even be a thing, but I was also nowhere near on a trajectory to walking into him or anyone or anything.
But of course it’s catnip to them to get cheap tough guy points and “adult”points telling themselves “the freeking kids these days on their compoota phones!”. Just like how their boomer parents lectured them, to which they would seethe.
Finally, solipsism is really not even just a foid thing anymore. He presumed I was TikTok doomscrolling because that’s what he does. Of course, he’s a coward too, where there was an awkward submissive smile as he utters “your welcome” walking past me.
This time I ignored it as soon as I realized the game he was playing, but next time if he passes me he deserves a [REDACTED] yourself
At this point I just want Old Testament punishments. I don’t even care if I’m included in that, as long as the sportsball fat oaf pigs who demand this go too
Why the fuck is my explore page riddled with fat pig goyball slop and why are the only options besides “news” fucking sports and goyish entertainment
Pretty insane actually how much normies still dominate the platform. I’d like an option to set beside “news” some tab like politics, culture, men and women, geopolitics, actual news, and maybe even fitness.
This goes for trending too, where sportsball and specific sportsball players are the most talked about things on the platform.
