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I know several women who are beautiful, successful, kind, intelligent and over 30.
They want to get married.
They've prayed about it.
They've dated.
They've met men.
And yet…
PAUL KAY | retweeted
Where in the world is that important?
Bro Rufai , we have NELFUND and that’s something Americans don’t have.
If I talk about the Coastal Road , it may look like I am bragging
That Peter Obi of the Nigerian Democratic Congress (NDC), having satisfied the requirements of the law, is hereby declared the winner and is returned elected as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.🥹
“No need to bring telecommunications into Nigeria because very few people can afford phones”
…this is how people sound when they imply that Nigerians won’t be able to pay for constant electricity.
When Obasanjo fixed telecommunications very few people could afford phones, today that single decision has created MoniePoint, paystack, remote work, people had the internet to even learn how to code or make money online - etc. a single decision that changed your life.
And today almost everyone can afford a phone.
Stop making excuses for these politicians; there are things that haven’t happened in your life yet because Nigeria doesn’t have stable power. Once it is introduced it begins to happen.
PAUL KAY | retweeted
When I tell people to stop scrolling aimless on X, instead of chasing banter, comedy and other brain rot activities.
Train your X algorithm to send you life changing informations your way.
How else would I have seen this today. And I’m retweeting to my networks, so nobody misses out on it. Good luck 👍
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I spent hours during the weekend finding companies abroad that are actively hiring and funding and compiled them into one sheet.
Application links, eligibility criteria have been added, so all you have to do is review the sheet and apply.
drive.google.com/file/d/1zSJ…
PAUL KAY | retweeted
Parties that expect to win do not do any of this.
Here are 5 signs of a party that is afraid, and the one thing it fears most: you, in your millions, voting on 16 January.
Watch the video. Then log your 20 → mobilise.vote4obi.com
Together we will make Nigeria OK✌️
#VoteNDC #MyTwentyVotersforObiKwankwaso #ANewNigeria #NigeriawillbeOK #vote4obi
PAUL KAY | retweeted
If the Special Adviser to President Tinubu can lift an old video from 2022 and presents it to the world as “Bayelsa women on the march for Tinubu in 2026”, I fear we’re in deeper shii than we realize.
PAUL KAY | retweeted
I hear people say Pres. Tinubu should just make electricity supply stable and Nigerians will vote for him.
Meanwhile, President Tinubu has already told you that once he is re-elected, he will remove the electricity subsidy.
Aso Rock is currently off-grid and relying on solar power.
That means that by next year an ordinary Nigerian will pay more for electricity they don't use.
Businesses will spend more on diesel, petrol and other alternative power sources.
People will become poorer by next year. Nigerians will so suffer.
A win for Pres. Tinubu next year is more hardship for us as a country.
I feel like I need to tone down my hate for the APC
But everyday I get angrier at them.
Like one is their campaign bus just speeding past me and I am realizing there’s no ambulance that you can call from any govt hospital in PH
Don't only ask, "Does this person meet my standards?"
Also ask, "Can we build the kind of relationship I want with each other?"
The answer requires more than attraction.
As a lady, I remain adamant that a man may get attracted to you, but the power to take it to the next level is in your hands.
I am not mincing words when I say check my pinned tweet!
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If you're a woman who wants marriage and you're tired of navigating relationships without knowing what to examine, my book may be a useful starting point.
Why Good Women Stay Single the Longest covers standards, self-awareness, choosing a partner and recognising red flags.
What's one green flag that immediately makes you take a man more seriously?
Not his money. Not his car.
I'm interested in the behaviours that tell you something meaningful about his character.
Don't lower a standard that protects your safety, dignity or core values just because you're tired of being single.
But be willing to question preferences that don't actually contribute to a healthy, lasting relationship.
Discernment is knowing the difference.
Unpopular opinion:
A long list of requirements doesn't necessarily mean you know what you need in a partner.
Sometimes, clarity comes from understanding your values and the kind of life you want to build.
Agree or disagree?
What kind of man are you actually looking for?
Not just tall, wealthy, handsome or God-fearing.
What values must he hold?
How does he handle conflict?
What does commitment mean to him?
These are the deeper questions worth considering.

















