Mistress Madeline

Faceless for a reason. I am not going to be your visual fetish. It's as simple as that. On this site, I could choose to flaunt myself to interest subs eyes. That certainly seems to be the going standard here. Since I'm not looking for a superficial connection, I'm choosing to weed out the subs who I know won't fit in my life. I don't want you to be physically attracted to me. I'm not looking for a "relationship." I don't care what you look like. I am looking for a real power-exchange. A negotiated transfer of power and control. I'm looking to build a long-term dynamic with a solid foundation of trust. Nowhere in that description, of what I'm looking for, do looks play a part. On either side. So, subs, reaching out to me and letting me spend time starting to build a connection, then getting upset when I don't automatically agree to change a boundary, I've clearly set, is not acceptable. Trust flows both ways. A solid power-exchange takes time to build. If you aren't willing to respect me, my process or my boundaries, don't reach out to me. I work with voice notes. I have no problem sending a customized voice note during our discussions that will provide clear evidence that I am who I say I am. I expect one back. If I see, through our interactions, that you are submitting to me and actually starting to give over some control, following directions, showing your ability to serve and worship me as you should, we will move on to phone calls. If things work and we establish a dynamic built solely on trust and communication, you will see me. That's a given and, part of all the dynamics I have with my long-term subs now. But not on demand, not if you push my boundaries and not if I don't trust you are a good fit for ME. For subs who want a solid, long-term Findom/finsub dynamic, free of the distraction of physical attraction, I'm willing to open up to you. For subs who mistake their kink for an actual BDSM lifestyle. Who feed on Media/Porn and Social Media versions of the life. Who think there should or needs to be physical attraction involved in a power-exchange, I'm not the one for you. Please don't waste any more of my time. For anyone else who may read this and feel the need to chime in and tell me how I SHOULD be doing "it," don't bother. This is my life, my choice and the only thing that matters is, it works for me.

Men kneeling is a powerful thing. It triggers me in all the right ways.

Self-awareness and humor. Two things I respect in a person.

LOL!! Yes. I'm willing to teach. Yes, I'm willing to play. Or, do both at the same time. If you freak out and block me, I can't do either. Thank you by the way. 😆

This is good to know.

I'm going to brag. I put together a fan today. All by myself. I should have learned how to do things like that long ago. Being served by others' sometimes keeps me from learning. This is a great lesson that I can do things. 😁

Absolutely.

Oh my gosh. Best PSA EVER!!! LOL

Well, this fits.

This is a really good question for subs to ponder. It's important to arm yourself with the knowledge you need to be ready to move forward without fear or self-doubt. Don't give up, learn more about yourself. It's so worth it.

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For subs that understand that the send is only part of the dynamic, thank you. Also, for those who understand that you're sending to spoil me, not because I need it, thank you. There really are some sweet subs on this site. Thank you for being brave and sticking with a crazy, unhealthy site, just hoping you'll find your place. That's the strength you'll need in order to offer the right type of submission. It inspires me. Yes, I'm a badass Domme, and I can tear you up one side and down the other. I can also appreciate subs when they deserve it. So, your judgement is unimportant to me.