GOMT

Will you give me a min, please? The fastest way for a made man to be unmade by women is, contrary to popular belief, monogamy. This is because there is no other realm in which a made man chooses monogamy over every other form of relationship he can have with women except in the realm of love. And in love, humans don't make informed decisions and can never entirely escape ruin. Ruin is unavoidable in monogamy because the substrate of monogamy is love, and the object of that love is a woman. And women, be it in monogamy or polygamy, are always in business. They never lose sight of the bigger picture: themselves. Hence, in monogamy, men are mixing pleasure with business, while for women, business it always is. Women maintain order and behave relatively better in polygamy than they do in monogamy. This is because, unlike in monogamy, where the man operationalises the connection through love and affection, women, being naturally inclined to take advantage of men's emotions by being insufferable, understand in polygamy that the attraction is purely performance- and incentive-based. The better behaved they are, the greater the incentives. So they maintain order, regulate their chaotic tendencies to an appropriate degree to serve the purpose of that relationship, and, in this arrangement, the man experiences more stability than he would ever get from committing to one woman on an emotional level. Now, the instability a man is fated to experience in a committed relationship with one woman is the reason I said that, in monogamy, a made man runs the risk of losing himself, his public image, and the things he has amassed for himself. Because in instability, focus is lost, temperament constantly tested, habits and rituals are neglected, and principles are compromised. These things, which are elemental to his eminence, high functioning, and success, receive less priority, and that reduced priority produces outcomes that are contrary to, or fall below, the standards he has established for himself. This is the path to his decline. The point is that a made man must not love women enough to allow one have emotional power over him. He must not love one enough to allow her the power to cause him internal imbalance. A mademan, if he must commit to women on a marital level, must do so through polygamy. A made man must not involve himself in monogamy. He must not entertain the distraction of falling in love with a woman, let alone institutionalising an attraction with one. For a made man, given his social status, cannot attract genuine desire, only users. And so he must not compound his misery by refusing to engage in a structured and order-oriented arrangement: polygamy. Otherwise, he suffers. Alright I said I needed a min, I lied.