Captain Skiet

Maybe ask if she recieved any counselling for it, if it’s something she might like you to help set up especially if she doesn’t feel she has the emotional strength to do it on her own. Make her understand that you fully empathise and are willing to walk the road with her and be supportive in any way you can. Tell her that you haven’t dealt with it too and you’d be happy to join a therapy session with her once she is comfortable with the therapist to help you both as a couple to navigate it without either of you feeling misunderstood or pushed away. Offer love and support and see what she says. Trauma can be complex and it’s not on you to try resolve it for her but you can help support her by finding the right people with the tools to help both of you work through it individually and together. Good luck