What would happen if we went back to DEVELOPING KIDS for the adult life they'll someday need to live? (and before you judge me, just hear me out) What if rather than lowering expectations when they experience stress and struggle We instead allowed kids to experience stress and struggle And we used those experiences to teach, train, and mentor them on the value of stress and struggle to learn and grow? What would happen if we went back to doing that? What if rather than eliminating friction and removing heavy obstacles We instead taught kids how to work through friction and strengthened them to carry the heavy load a purposeful life demands? I'm open to hear all sides, opinions, and experiences on this . . . Why is it so common to make everything easier for kids, knowing they'll someday need to become functional adults in a world that will never match those conditions?