Raif

One of the biggest problems many Muslims don't notice is the WHY factor. People now always want to know: why did Allah ﷻ allow this for her but not for me? Why this ruling when we see that? Why, why, why… This is a huge problem in your 'aqeedah and in your understanding of Islam. You believe Allah ﷻ is al-'Alim (the All-Knowing) and al-Hakim (the All-Wise), the Creator and Sustainer of everything. Yet you only feel comfortable once YOU know why He said something? To be clear, asking about the wisdom behind a ruling in order to learn is fine. The disease is when your obedience depends on the answer. The believer obeys first, whether or not he ever finds out the wisdom. "It is not for a believing man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, to have any choice in their affair" (33:36) 
"The only saying of the believers, when called to Allah and His Messenger, is that they say: we hear and we obey" (24:51) 
"He is not questioned about what He does, but they will be questioned" (21:23) Islam never contradicts sound reason. But reason follows the revelation. It doesn't sit in judgement over it. Our generation and the ones coming are being taught Islam on a "does it make sense to me?" basis, when Islam is built on: Allah said, the Messenger ﷺ said. We hear and we obey. Do you know who first put his own logic above Allah's command? Iblis. "I am better than him: You created me from fire and him from clay" (7:12). He had logic, and it took him straight out of Allah's mercy. So what happens when someone lives as a "Muslim" for 20–30 years and then finds rulings that don't make sense to him? You get what you see today: "Muslim feminist," "progressive Muslim," "secular Muslim," "British Muslim first." 'Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "If the religion were based on opinion, the bottom of the khuff would be more deserving of wiping than the top. But I saw the Messenger of Allah ﷺ wipe the top" (Abu Dawud, sahih). So where is the logic in: •passing wind from one place, and washing your face, arms and feet? •Fajr being 2 rak'ahs, Maghrib 3, Dhuhr 4? •2 prayers recited silently and 3 aloud? •eating camel meat breaking your wudu, but not lamb (Muslim)? •the menstruating woman making up her missed fasts, but not her missed prayers? A woman asked 'Aishah about that last one: why fasts and not prayers? 'Aishah said: "Are you a Haruri?" (meaning one of the Khawarij). “We were commanded to make up the fasts, and not commanded to make up the prayers" (Muslim). That was the answer. Not a lecture on logic. Just: we were commanded. 'Umar kissed the Black Stone and said: "I know you are a stone. You neither harm nor benefit. Had I not seen the Messenger of Allah ﷺ kiss you, I would not have kissed you" (Bukhari). That's the religion of the Sahabah. They didn't make obedience wait until they understood. If your iman only holds when every ruling makes sense to you, then what you're worshipping is your own mind, not Allah. Submit, and the understanding will come, or it won't. Either way, you've succeeded.