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Unlearning, learning & relearning 💫I am love🤍G(old) soul🌊I try not to go against the current of the universe, but rather move with Ease of a Breeze✨✨✨5D Vibe

Deep Within God’s Love
Joined July 2012
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We don't want to keep asking for the bare minimum or explaining how to be loved. We want to feel considered, valued and chosen without having to beg for it.
What do women wish men understood without having to explain it every single time?
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이런 유형의 사람들이 더 공격받는 경우가 많은 듯함. 나 역시 타인의 평가나 사회적 서열에 크게 관심이 없고 감정 표현도 적은 편임. 웬만한 일에는 동요하지 않고, 경쟁하거나 기싸움을 벌이는 일도 무시함. 그래서 주변에서는 안정적이고 흔들리지 않는 사람으로 보는 편. 그런데
고오급 질투는 돈이나 외모가 아니라 갓생이나 서열놀이에 안 매이는 사람한테 향하는 듯 은연중에 무시하던 애가(혹은 나와 비슷하다고 생각했던 애가) 조건, 눈치 안 보고 자기 철학으로 행복하게 사는 꼴을 보면 돌아버림 "내가 이렇게 전전긍긍하는데 너 따위가 감히 행복해?" 이 열등감 범벅인 자기중심적 사고가 문제 ㅜ
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
The issue. They want you to give up. You’re not giving up. They’ll try to manage you. You still won’t give up. Never give up.
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
I have a particular fear of deeply insecure people. Some can be incredibly manipulative and vindictive. When someone's ego is fragile and their need for validation goes unmet, you never really know how far they'll go to protect it.
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my not-favorite version of myself is not being able to perform care when ive been pushed beyond my limit of empathy. because now, i have to vehemently protect myself and stand for what feels right for me.
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
Yeah, I’m fine with Sam not knowing the details of his father’s job.
Kids saying what they think their parents do for work VS what they actually do 😂😂😂
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Most have gone through trauma which fortified them.
I'm forever jealous of people who are not sensitive, who don't take things seriously, who don't panic, who know how to ignore, who don't waste their time in overthinking, who don't have attachment issues, these people are the most blessed people in the universe.
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this is why it’s so important for people to love what they do.
I was catching up on Ora Thlapi’s videos and had to record this part. Her idea of using colour-coded stickers for morning, afternoon and evening medication is so clever. Imagine how helpful this would be for elderly people in our villages and townships who struggle to read medication instructions, especially when they're written in a language they don't understand. She identified a real problem and came up with such a practical solution. I really hope this gets implemented in more hospitals and clinics. ❤
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
Replying to @Our_DA
@Our_DA never speaks on the fact that there were 4 DA mayors who ran Tshwane into the ground between 2016 and 2024. All of them failed and removed, including Cilliers Brink. But we are somehow meant to believe that's the party thats going to save the city?
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
talking in terms of what’s “right” is often a deflection from talking about *what you want.* and we’re often referring to the exact same behavior: for ex I can both Be and Choose a kind, upstanding, communicative partner. the difference is in how I justify it
I've become very radicalized on the idea that most relationship problems come from 1) people not being self-aware enough to identify what they want and 2) consciously choosing/tolerating situations where they aren't getting what they want. The whole "needs" discourse makes me crazy for this reason: another person is not obligated to give you what you "need," but you are obligated to yourself to decide how much it matters to you if they don't
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I have bowed out gracefully from all social tug of wars with my current affirmative that states “if I have to question you, I have my answer”
I’m tired of human relationships turning into a chess match that requires strategic moves.
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
You have to be able to hold people accountable for how they treat you, whether that means confronting them, cutting them off, or simply distancing yourself. Whatever approach you choose, you must never allow people to disrespect you.
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
and that’s why his name is Courage
Courage would cry his eyeballs out then immediately come back wit the blick
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
People will push you toward your destiny without ever knowing they were doing it. That is the quiet comedy of life.
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It’s very simple this thing. If we fumble this, I’m buying a stand in Limpopo and building my future home. Gauteng would’ve failed me.
- Tshwane is such an easy vote, I envy them.
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Duane "Keffe D" Davis has been found guilty of first-degree murder in the killing of hip-hop legend Tupac Shakur. cnn.it/4qO1NZV
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Don’t let these times harvest your energy. Stay in your power.
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Why he ain’t put no fish tank inna center console like he did everybody else
Xzibit shows off his new custom Rolls Royce 🔥
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LadyRay✨🤍 retweeted
y qué estabas haciendo que no respondías? (whatsapp) yo en twitter:
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guys please stop whatever you're doing and take a minute to check these two videos out I'm dying
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