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-Negativity & posturing, & online arguments
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Being obese
Being addicted to (anything)
Being unable to control temper
Being unable to attract romance
Being unable to get biz leads
Being on verge of divorce
Constant back pain
Being in debt
Being unable to market product
Being unable to stop temper tantrums
Having an out of control teenager
Being in a job you hate
Being underpaid at job
Being passed over constantly at work
Battling crippling anxiety
Battling insomnia
This is just a short list but you get the idea
If you want to build a coaching or agency business, solve a 3P pain
What’s a 3P pain?
It’s a pain that is
-Precise
-Persistent
-Pervasive
It’s precise in that the prospect can accurately define it. It isn’t a dull ache. It’s an acute searing pain.
It’s persistent in that it never goes away. They think about it 24/7. They wake up at 3am thinking about it. It’s not a migraine they get once every 6 months. It’s a migraine that LASTS 6 months.
It’s pervasive in that it impacts all areas of their life. It doesn’t go away when they come home from work. It comes home with them and follows them everywhere.
The more your offer solves a 3P pain, the more you can charge. If you can reliably solve these kinds of pains for people, you will never have to worry about money as long as you live.
Here's how to become a billionaire:
Don't watch this and think I'm telling you not to set the bar high. You should have audacious goals. That's a great thing.
But you also need to understand reality. And being a billionaire is much more rare than most people think.
When people say they want to be a billionaire, what they USUALLY mean is they want unlimited freedom.
And if what you really want is freedom, then trying to become a billionaire (while you're still young enough to enjoy said freedom), will almost certainly have the opposite of the intended effect
This is from my conversation with the great @CoFoundersNik
Give the episode a listen at youtube.com/@getfatherized
You can listen to the podcast on Spotify here, btw. Over 1k followers already.
Join them and check it out:
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I wanted to wait until the blue check to start ripping from this account (ocd ftw) but I couldn't put it off any longer
If you want to learn from some of the best entrepreneur dads I've met in my 4 year online journey, you need to follow our show here:
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Recording new episodes of the podcast. I’ll be posting them here (and many other places)
People say podcasting is “saturated” and that’s true. But it’s also the greatest content hack known to man
Dad hack:
Remember, your younger kids want to do what your older kids do.
We used this to our advantage when our youngest recently didn't want to brush his teeth.
He'd clamp down on the brush, try to grab it from me, cry and be generally obstinate.
So to overcome it, we let him watch me brush is big brother's teeth
We made a big deal out of it
"Look how your brother does it, look how he's getting his teeth brushed, can YOU do that?"
Almost immediately our youngest pleasantly let me brush his teeth.
He wanted to be like his big brother. Easy fix and can be applied broadly.
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but when your kids say “watch this,” put your phone down and watch
(Bonus points for not holding your phone in the first place)
(Disclaimer: advice applies unless they’re asking you to watch something imminently dangerous, which is frequently the case)
For any dad who wants to build a business online, here's my favorite advice I give when I'm working 1 on 1 with someone:
The more specific the outcome you get for someone, and the bigger pain it solves, the more you can charge
This is why I like coaching & consulting models so much for guys just starting out
- add $ x per month to their business
- lose 30 pounds of stubborn fat
- bring couples back from the brink of divorce
- get someone a new job with a $ x raise
- help a man meet his future wife
- get screen time to under 1 hour per day
- get someone 1000 email addresses for their list per week
- close 20% more sales calls
- get their kid an A in chemistry class
- set up homeschool curriculum so kids hit measurable performance markers
- fix a dead bedroom
What do all of these have in common?
The result you're getting is measurable (the client knows if they got it or not, zero guesswork)
And you're solving a pain people think about all day long
If you want the simplest and fastest path to an extra couple thousand dollars per month, this is the way to go
We're building the best community for dad-preneurs on the internet
It opens in February. You can get on the waitlist (and lock in early bird rate forever) by clicking this: fatherize.com